Physical contact embitters

It doesn't discipline

And it was for small shit too, like a C grade

if a kid is obviously bad-willed and acts like trash then punishing that kid is better than letting it rot further

Generlaly i see it this way, im with someone because they are valuable to me, they are the person I chose, and they chose me, its mutual. If they make demands of me I make demands back, thats how it works. In order to keep things together we must have a way of punishment nad reciprocation. Otherwise we fail to have anything and the smallest reasons are reason for things breaking apart since barriers are not established nor enforeced.

If a child is whoring around they should be beat without mercy by the parents

Bogatyr, i have a similar idea, thats why beating somebody isnt an argument to me

if they arent valuable to me then why to be with them

let them sink on their own

Hell if my GF and I went to a club, we never do but if we did, and she le herself flirt with a guy, id first bash the guy then slap her for he rbullshit and ultimatum it that I did not permit what she was just doing and that she should have known that what she was doing was wrong. And to remember that or everything is over.

Beating your child without mercy lol

well, Bogatyr in that situation - maybe

Stop being a pussy, use a belt on kids

I actually am in a mentorship program for kids that have rough lives and bad conduct and the defining feature a lot of them have are black eyes and bruises

its essentially a preventative measure to stop shit going to far.

not really

Beat your kids into discipline

That'll totally work

@el pebble You? Mentorship? I feel sad for the kids

if somebody is spoiled or wants to cheat on you then they will do

@el pebble Thats just simply abuse. mostly kids need reason and direct feedback but some kids ltierally need physicla force. Its just the character you happen to be dealing with

it is your responsibility to check whether they treat you seriously or not

@el pebble I got beat with rose stems a slap is nothing, at least use a belt on them time to time

No it's more like beating your kids doesn't discipline them

some very dumb kids might need physical punishment, but it should be restricted

Do you want to foster integrity or fear of punishment

it is, however that means also demanding they do so. If they fail to do so in minor ways they need to know their bullshit wont fly.

Idiots

@el pebble both debil

demokratia, I met some people who told to act differently would never listen, but beaten in the face magically changed their attitude towards me

its fucking magic, isnt it

Personally I think public embarrassment would be the most effective

Beating into submission doesn't discipline

some people are just a specific character, overuse of physical force is never good and applying to much both simply fall under abuse

It isn't about just telling them either

It isnt beating into submission

it is disciplining some fucking human trash that thinks too high of themselves

Pick up your kid in a crop top and Speedos with sunglasses and and a fedora to embarrass him

Yeah they totally suddenly learned to act different when hit

You guys are pussies