unsolicited discussion of abuse

personal stuff that changes how you perceive a person

some women peddle in that as a consequence

others put it away and retain their own self-empowering narrative

I don't care. If they cared enough, they would kill that person.

agreed

same is true with domestic violence advocacy women

But usually it's not sexual or physical abuse.

Usually it's their drunk dad telling them they can't get a nose ring.

often serially abused

because they go back to the same thing

some obviously are less bothered by it than they say

My baby sitters Korean dad blew up at her for having pibk hair for like a year.

a bargaining chip like anything else

but it's more complex than that

And apologized to my dad for half an hour

About his daughter having pink hair.

In broken engliah

When I was like 8

crazy justifications for why their relationship was sensible despite already knowing about the dude's violence

they go back to him after he's been violent

etc

Yeah

If they really cared enough, they would just kill him.

Imo

Why do so many feminists claim prior abuse tho

That's what a dude would do.

As they perceive everything as an offense.

because we live in a credentialist society

Even dudes saying hi.

as opposed to a meritocracy

Who are interested in them

Not even hitting on them. Just seeing if they respond

and as someone who fights men, saying you've been violated by one riles up fellow combatants

Yep

I don't mean hypersensitive triggered chicks that get pissed off that stop signs have a masculine redness

While tons of women have killed their actual rapists in real life

And only a few convicted

Even in third world countries.

There seems to be something universal about blowing someones brains out for physically violating you.

Like an average feminist that likes black science guy and goes to lgbt parades