That doesn't make any sense

he thinks that _all girls_ are _constantly afraid_ of being raped _on any date_, and because of this, men are not allowed to ask for things such as "can you help me split the bill" or "why am I expected to be masucline"

thats sounds like the definition of phobia

and therefore irrational

saying that makes men who ask those questions look like rapists/rape sympathizers

what a great way to start the school year, accusing me of being a rapist/rape sympathizer

Hold on

So the solution to the rape fear issue is to be more masculine?

I thought masculinity was #toxic

I can't be sure if he said the masculinity one for sure

but it was things to that effect

men wanting women to play more of a role in relationships, instead of making men do all the work

it was over a year ago

I'm glad I know women who don't expect me to assault them

:^)

sounds to me like these women need to MAN UP because the vast majority of dates don't end in rape

things is

by the definition of some of them

most of them DO end up in rape

this one I might be making up, because again, this was over a year ago, but I think I remember this guy saying parents/teachers/coaches encouraging black students to try athletics is racist

again, might be making that one up because I don't remember, but I swear I've heard that idea before

All PIV sex is rape because rape is not about sex it is about power and men hold power over women

it probably goes without saying, but if the left wants more male/white allies, they'll get more if they stop attacking them

"I hate white men. Why won't white men support my cause? I must be the victim."

Can't men and women just like each other and hug anymore.

They don't support my cause? This makes me hate them. Let's attack them more.

😦

Everything is so scary now.

Nah, most people in real life aren't like this

"Can't men and women just like each other and hug anymore."

that's rape though

In real life, the dating scene is gone.

*Gone.*

When you actually get face to face one on one with people most people are pretty good

Online dating has become the majority shareholder.

And it's a shitshow.

most people are good, and face to face dating still takes place

but you're right

fuck tinder

and fuck online dating

i've seen examples like leaning in for a kiss on a date when the mood gets going is rape...seriously? the old one finger under the chin kiss might be rape? im a serial rapist then