Noice titties

Lol

What is even happening

I need another beer

Well that's disappointing

That would be pretty cool to see

I think I got to see o e when I was like ten in school. Don't really remember it though

Man. That sucks.

My mom was raised in a super strict religion, but left the church when she was like 16 and was excommunicated. So she refused to raise me with any religion

And I am super thankful for that because it just seems right to like. Let your kids be free.

I was allowed to go to whatever I wanted

I guess I'm just saying I really feel for you

Yeah cults are not okay

They are dangerous

I hope so too

Haha awe I wish it could send

I honestly know very little about India

But I am very interested

Yeah! I honestly find talking to people from other countries a better lens into life there than what I can read online

At least different perspectives anyway

Me too

What is an ancestral house?

Awwe that is so cute!

Ooh okay I've heard of that. It's pretty brilliant. Here people just sell their parents houses

Usually to pay for their parents care in a home...

That is sad

Well. It depends on level of care needed

Here anyway, most people work and aren't at home. And sometimes they can't be left at home alone for long periods of time

Buuut

I do think it that is an excuse used sometimes when it's not really the case

Well and that's part of it as well

I mean. The homes here are pretty dang nice

The ones you pay for with a house anyway

Yeah that's crazy

Yeah that happens here a lot too

There are feuds that last generations. Farmers hold grudges like no other

It's usually about something stupid and trivial

And it happens especially within families regarding succession plans

Lol oh yeah. It's super rural here. Rural outvote the Urbans, that's how rural it is lol

I had to babysit my brother

I was mean to him

I kinda regret that. He's a pretty nice dude

Green for Christmas

@sleepysclmsft i made up for it later by pulling him alcohol and giving him weed for Christmas

Protips

Awwwe

That's the unfortunate part when you are far apart though

I moved out of the same house as my brother when I was thirteen

He was eight years younger than me

So I get the distance

It's there even though you don't want it to be

Buuut he still gets in contact with me every once in awhile

So. I give him weed at the holidays lol

Yeah. I figured what I lacked in presence I'd make up for in coolnes

That and I usually lied for him

Ish

I mean. He would use me in his lies and sometimes I'd back him up lol

Well. A big sisters gotta be good for something

I needed to leave cause of my own family stuff at the time

He didn't get to leave

Yeah. It's different but the same

And that's okay

Learning how to take care of yourself is hard enough

Yeah me too

I like them now though

But I had to be selfish first

That's fair

Things get better once you are on your own

It took awhile. I had to learn how to take care of myself. Then I got into work. Then I worked too much. Then I forgot to take care of myself
And here I am

Buuut. I did what I wanted. When I wanted

And that was glorious

Well. That's really all it takes

Lol

Everything makes me nervous these days

Used to not be so. I swear I used to be a shark

I was very aggressive in my career path

Yeah you should go

I'm going

I understand how you feel

I feel that way a lot lately too

I also know how that feels

I started it. But it's a scary thing

I was scared of that as well. Which is why I funded by myself

@ramfrog I keep bees and sell honey

Try a different doctor who specializes maybe?

@ramfrog that's awesome!

I see what you mean

No. It is something you will have to learn to live with in some way or another

Just therapy might help

At least. Help you sort through it

Help you think about it another way
I'm told therapy helps you think about problems from different ways

I had to go to my doctor. Got a referral to the hospital. Not sure how it works there

It was a lot of referrals and waiting

Idunno. Canada healthcare is okayish

My husband is an RN so I hear about it a lot

That sucks that it take so long

Here they throw you on drugs while you wait

Yeah. Don't have to worry about that here. As long as I got my health card it's free

Except like. Prescriptions and dental for some reason

No not really.