if you do now

Well, women like her are INCREDIBLY rare here

I live in Louisiana

then be a rare guy

She was a legal immigrant

So it makes me want to go to other countries ngl

the proportion is small but theres tons of pretty women who like sciences in every single state of the US

Yeah, I try to follow the whole "be yourself thing." But my entire life until late highschool I was a social chameleon

So I don't know what that is

youre overthinking things

I think a lot

that moment when you don't have any other passion

and are attracted to ssbws

literally just dont ever doubt whether you should or shouldnt be somewhere

or whether you fit in

which are in short supply in romania

be secure in yourself

you dont have to be a jock to have big dick energy

it has nothing to do with r/theredpill strategies either

i just want a fucking good wife

if you literally do your thing and show you enjoy it a woman will be attracted

well i only enjoy hams

not any or all of them

which are leftists

but some, and one is bound to be your type

most probably

Yeah, I guess this being my transitory period in life is what is making it so hard

which are the pollitical oppposite of mine

I'm trying to narrow down and find my passion and learn who I actually am

then forget about women and figure that out

I have been pretending so much of my life that its like, what is the real me (as edgy as it sounds)

would you want a woman who hasnt figured herself out, and is lost in the sauce?

put yourself in her shoes

no good woman will ever want you until you handle that

I guess its kinda selfish to want someone figured out to help save me lmao

absolutely

not just selfish but unwise

Well, I used to know what I wanted

I'm thinking of trying to join the air force

if you dont know what you want just start doing things

*anything*

your life is not so far along that you cant change it if anything

And if I do my life might go much different than what it could or should be

if youre saying youre thinking about it youre not gonna do it

say "im gonna join the air force" and work towards it

if you change your mind before you do its fine

make an informed commitment to something though

Well, I'm still losing the weight required

ok good

so i dunno how i can make my preferences

Then I can get the AFOQT setup

physical health helps with emotional health btw

They literally wont let me even talk about taking the test until I meet the weight lmao

well, ofc

I guess I'm worried that if I join the Air Force and get passionate

I will probably never leave

Which means a life going solo in terms of relationships

Basically its a choice of life passion or a relationship

you can do both

my wifes father is a career military man, a colonel

my mother and father in law are a happy couple

if it becomes a problem you can leave

goddammit

I'm very duty bound as a person. I'd rather suffer than do something I consider "selfish"

So if it got in the way, I probably wouldn't leave

your country isnt asking you to forego all of that rn

moreover, think of yourself as having a duty to have a posterity to invest in

i just want to change my preference

of my ideal sexual partner

because hams

if you dont make a family you are a dead end on the family tree

are in really short supply

and food is expensive

jesus christ frog then dont fuck meat products i dont know what to tell you

so i guess i will be sexually unfullfilled

How hard was military life on the relationship for your wife's parents?

hams=ssbbws

ssbbws=real fat chicks

Like, did they get enough time together

real fat chicks=suicidal patriotic frog because i am really conservative

I'd probably be on a base so its not like the long distance marines stuff

but still

vietnam has few deployments outside their own soil, so he was able to come home most days to be fair

Well if it is possible, then I think it will work out

but yeah just find someone wherever you are

long distance is shit

My parents said, you never know

You might find the person where you get stationed

And it might not be in the US

just dont be a boot and marry on the 2nd date

ye lmao

and dont buy a car as soon as you get out

>tfw ignored

I would say that's a promise but man, them estonian girls

never know

>tfw 4chan fag

>tfw looking for advice on discord

stop shitposting and you won't get ignored