As good as a deaf bat

@Sir Harndes never predict

just lead on.

I was put in the friendzone a while back. The gal legit told me and i fucking quote "im saving you as a backup incase my other relationships dont work out"
Thats the last convo we had, last friendly one at that. And she wonders why men ghost her

give a woman everything, and she's done with you.

Leave them something to search for in you.

@PanzerWrecker like?

Something interesting, captivating

A N Y T H I N G

dark past

She doesn't even know my name, but she stares at me sometime.

If you show all shell know all.

your dick size

your ex

You'll find a nice girl. After my last relationship ended in a big old fireball that left me with a kid and a lot of bad feelings, I was able to find simeone who I'll be spending 4 year with in december

your last town

a n y t h i n g

why do you think it's "ENIGMATIC"?

@Sir Harndes properly introduce yourself but try to not make it embarrassing or a scene. A small hello and start small talking about something that may interest her or has something to do with her. Like a compliment about her shirt or backpack.

Yeah

But she's mostly not alone

honestly?

best advice ever was

*"keep her talking about HERSELF*"

bitches will go on for H O U R S

Bruh you got this

M8 you will do it

@INNYGMATYK this

If I can land a girl while also telling her I have a kid on the way, I'm sure you can make more than do

Dont make it that way. If you can assimilate into the group you have a larger influence. If you can maintain a friendship with just her thats great, but the whole group? That shows that you're in it for them, and not yourself.

and that's how you get the P U C C I

(sry yall - ime intense)

Be selfless at first, ease yourself in and let them talk. Women like someone who can listen

And keep secrets

Or bitch about someone she dosent like. That'll score you points

@PanzerWrecker i didn't get it very well

What do you mean

About the group thing

I don't have friends in common

If you can befriend one, great. If you can befriend them all, then they trust you more. Be a part of the group.

Relationships like all good things take time.

Like a fine wine or cheese it takes patience, the right ingredients, slow and steady movements, and time

I married my highschool sweetheart cuz we had bb(hes amazing id litteraly do some scorched earth shit for him) but she was toxic and shit was not healthy. I spent like 2 years "alone" doing the tinder thing going to bars and while it was fun it wasnt lasting. At the end of the day i was truly alone.

@thedarkness05 top tier advice desu

Thats another thing, if anyone has any questions about ANYTHING hit me up. Because i had no friends for most of hs i spent my time researching things and watching documentaries.

Or any of us bro. We all in this together

Apes together strong

Then i just started talking with a girl from my hometown and we just talked for like a whole year. We built a lasting relationship without sex, without any of that other shit and now were very happy together. She might even be a boogaloobabe.

Remeber that

And if i don't know the answer i will research the fuck out of it

I don't even have the guts to talk to her alone

You just gotta go for ot

@Sir Harndes then is she the one?

With a whole group of girls? Sir harns dead

@wendiko we're sharing the same boat my dude. Glad its working out

Are you going after her based only on looks? Or common interest?

Who?

Looks. And heritage.

Yeah, strange

@PanzerWrecker i have something for you cuz my girl case is beyond fucked

Heritage?

She's very italian

As myself

Is that a reason to date someone?

Mama mia pizza pucci

No

Idk

Shes gorgeous

Italian girls.

Find someone who completes you, and that you complete.

If she has Italian family over her women specifically shell be a total gem at home.

Skin will wrinkle someday.

Mine was redheads. An itallian redhead. Oh what a mistake

My girl has part italian family and they are very into the old ways of family.

My family is italian

I know how it works haha

Bruh italian/mexican yum.

Im Italian and german. I know this stuff

But a friend of mine told me shes a very cool person to talk to

Ok

Fuck my girls a gem guys. I dont say that enough. Not to break my arm jacking myself off

You may say

"Boi, you have a friend in common, thats dope"

Bbbbut

I need to do this myself

I ain't depending on her

Aight, then strap up and do it goon. It'll work out

I get nervous

Gtg

We all do man.

We all do. But dont let it show. Roll in there like you own the place

And I still dont have a good reason to get into her group without being awkward

Like half of what confidence is is not showing that you're nervous

Dont matter if its awkward or not. Hop right in, tag in their convo, drop a funny anecdote and take it from there

Idk fam

I need a plan

Or

A good excuse

Make a pace plan lmao