But it causes no distractions

Real transgenders, those that actually have medically diagnosable gender dysphoria and no those that just want oppression points for attention, do not want to be singled out with fake pronouns or be referred to exclusively with they/them. That's Tumblr BS.
Real ones want to be seen exclusively as their identified gender as they stand without being some blending of the two. And yes there's only two.

I've seen a Transgender before

a Real one

lol

Looked just like a woman

Blaire White pointed out what makes the fake ones.

How would you know it's a transgender then?

Usually a good sign is how they like to call attention to it.

I mean if they pass

you don't know

unless you try to grab them by the pussy I guess

What does it matter if everyone knows if they're trans?

Fake Ones just look like overweight ladies

I also love the oversight Tumblr uses in regards to the cis/trans issue.

But before I continue there, may I ask what part of the transition you feel you're in, Emma?

Thing is, I hate people who beg for attention, and they use 1st world problems as their way to get attention

and that affects me as I have small problems that I hate talking to my friends about as I feel it makes me seem like an attention whore

I find it kind of ironic when LGBT people complain about how evil white people are, when they have no rights in any other society

Well there are steps along the way. The first part is accepting who you are. I've done that. After that is seeking professional diagnosis. I've done that. Either before or after that is letting friends and family in on it and I've partially done that and plan on telling my parents.... well... tomorrow. Just before Thanksgiving.

I want them to know before I actually start HRT.

If I wait until after they'll resent that I hid that.

Tumblr is a sess pool of bad ideas

Fair enough, and I'm not asking to judge your plan of action. I'm just curious if the way I view the endgame of the transition makes sense to you as someone who's actively transitioning.

That's because it has an echochamber mentality.

Echochambers have a way of drowning out good ideas and encouraging bad ones.

End game is to be seen completely female with strangers not having anything to even hint that it was ever anything different.

The voice is ambiguous enough that if I pass visually no one is going to think twice about it.

Gotcha. Would I be twisting any words or ideas if I simplified what you expressed to being seamlessly cisgender/cissexual?

That's what I want the typical stranger to think at first glance.

It would be like that one Scene in South Park

Right now, absolutely no one is even slightly hesitating with the "sirs" despite pink clothes and nail polish and various jewelry. And I don't really have that masculine of a face.

I think it's the facial hair. It grows lightning fast and even clean shaving it leaves enough of an impact for people to tell.

PC Principal: Who is in charge of the paper!! I will break his legs!!!!!!

Ever try waxing that shit fam?

Or laser removal?

That's not as simple with the face.

But... it is. LOL

Facial hair has a different structure than other body hair.

Things like waxing can cause damage.

Or scars

It's pretty simple. They sell facial waxing kits at Wal-Mart

Not to mention that the skin is much more thin and minimal.

I just shed my old body and be done with it

Those are meant for women with peach fuzz hair. Not male facial hair that is thick and full.

Meh~ :/

facial hair best hair

Maybe plucking or epilation?

I maintain my stubble carefully

Same problem there.

Scaring is very likely.

Electrolosis?

If I spelt that right

That's the only realistic choice but it is super expensive and is considered cosmetic so insurance will not pay for it.

Most trans women get it.

WAIT!!! What about hair removal cream?

Those can work, but they don't work for everyone.

If it doesn't for you, you're shit out of luck.

Try it then?

They're spendy.

I really shouldn't try them until after I get HRT.

So are razors.

HRT will not stop facial hair but it slows them.

Insurance Companies Fucking Suck

So any removal option will last longer.

I dunno

Wah~ :/

I can only afford to shave every two or three days.

There are plenty of people that would like free plastic surgery

But honestly I need to shave two or three times.... per day.

You have to draw a line somewhere

It grows insanely fast.

Why not everyday to keep it down?

Too much effrort

LOL

Lazy

I can barely afford to do it every few days.

Damn nigga! How poor are ya?

I have less than $2 in my bank account.

you shave 3 times a day?

lmao

are you sure you're low T

Pfft.

It doesn't take much T to make you hairy.

lol I've taken DHT before

and I still didn't need to shave 3 times a day

DHT?

which is a big part of why trans men pass more easily than trans women. Because it does not take much T to make you hairy as fuck.

All the T does is turn on your hair. It doesn't make you more or less hairy if you get more of it.

Dihydrotestostero

n

Dafuq is that?

But to get back to what I was starting to hint at before, Tumblr's oversight comes in that they advocate for trans while they're in transition, but after the trans reach a point of satisfaction with themselves, Tumblr will turn on the newly cis unless the former trans continue to kowtow.

metabolized form of testosteron

It's a bit like conservatives with fetuses/infants in that regard.

Pro-birth, but not assuredly pro-life.

Most people that choose to identify as some fake gender are women. So if the ones among them that are actually trans, are really trans men and they are, in reality, afraid to identify as male because of how much feminism demonizes men.

but yeah why shave 3 times a day?

Dafuq is THAT? lol These big words fam.

do you shave tiny stubbles too?