I'm sorry to hear that, my grandfather died a few days ago as well, it is hard to cope with at times but as long as they arent suffering

sorry about that

Appreciate it. How are you holding up?

A bit shocked, but I'll feel worse in a minute notice

Hang in there, its tough, but think how our loved ones would want us to feel

we're all sad

specially my cousins

he was 63

their mother disappeared a long time ago. Found her body on a bathtub

what a fucking shitty life

y'all call me doomer, but I have reasons to be one

I understand, life can be ridiculously hard at times. But we pull through it, and make it better for ourselves over time as we improve and get better at coping. That is very rough, you definitely don't have it easy but that should mean you will be among the strongest

*sigh* oh boi

me: But I dunno, what I did or didn't do won't make any difference after death. Personal opinion, wish I'm wrong

father: makes a huge difference if you accept Christ or not

yeah, FO SHO

Boomers

Oof yeah

I don't dismiss the idea of a ''place'' where you go after death, I just don't buy it

But dang

If that so, if you're a fucking pedo, does it mean you're going to heaven if you accept Christ at the last moment??

darn wrong

Yeah that part ive always had issue with, forgiveness is great and all but still, there must be a line drawn. I respect everyones choices of religion, however personally I don't think the institutions of any of them stand for anything they once did.

^

father: no matter how GOOD you are. if you dont have Christ its not enough

It isn't right of him to force his ideals onto you, no one should be doing that to anyone. You'll have to develop a nice hard outer shell to continue dealing with that until youre on your own

exactly

I ain't discussing with him anymore

Thats the right move

Anyone else have their significant other put them in damned if you do, damned if you dont positions?

Not really, but thats only because she knows she cant stop me from doing my thing

*casually tags her*

@Scr0m yeah. So just shows the better position you want, and dont apologize. Have back bone. It's a sub concious test mate

Be the head of household.

They fuck better when you do

^ Facts

I gotcha. That makes sense. @mcguyver123

Girlfriend has just been doing it and fucking putting me in shitty spots where I end up having to do something or else it's an argument for the night and being bothered

@Scr0m-argument over something dumb

I've been married for 3 years, with the same girl for 8. At some point I just started telling her the argument is dumb and isnt worth it. Ask if theres something wrong when you're both calm, tell her you've noticed shes been on your ass more recently, and let her know neither of yall need that and youd rather talk it out.

Otherwise everything else is theatrics