Message from @ThisIsChris
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she hasn't initiated texting in a while
so i guess i'll just play it by ear
tfw no gf until then
Don't worry man you are wicked young. And as you get older, you will meet more mature girls
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dat fertility window tho
Gaiu
Plenty of time man
@Gaius Mucius Scaevola like @Pat-MA said 18 year olds are really immature and unstable (sorry young guys lol). If I were you I wouldn't bother with a girl younger than 21. Don't worry about fertility window, you have a good while.
feelsbadman
but alright
Yeah man, I read an article about how most girls hit their peak maturity nowadays at age 27
Also, one of the open secrets is this: most girls are trad in some way, it's the natural way
big thing to me is she was born and raised orthodox christian
and orthodox christians are already an intense minority in this country
I agree religion is important. On religion she sounds great, but I think the age thing really is a challenge.
true
i was a fucking retard at 18
i'm still a fucking retard, only slightly less
lol
Yeah I don't want to knock anyone man or woman, i can only imagine what I looked like to other people, but I quickly learned that girls 18-23 are basically pixies
Then around 23 they start to get a little more serious
my personal experience, though I'm sure it's the same the other way around as well
You are definitely right man. Then at 27 they usually take another turn
i was a shithead up until like 2 years ago
I'm a shithead
So i've been texting this girl for a week, then I ask her out on a date and she says she's not looking to date anyone right now. When I asked for her number initially I was perfectly clear I wanted to date her, so why did she text with me for a week acting like she was into me?
Because girls love attention
She could have been texting other guys at the same time
Oof, you are probably right though.
>texting for a week
no no no
Unfortunately it is probably done man. Lots of girls are like that though, on to the next
only use texting to set up a real world meeting
I probably messed up by not asking her out sooner right?
depends
just be aware of momentum
feelings build
or fall off
You do want to strike while the iron is hot. Ask her out when she is feeling you
@Attrition in the desert I think the principle behind what @Deleted User and @Pat-MA are saying is that you want to make your intentions clear. If you dilly dally for a week she may have no idea you're actually serious either