@aukkras unfortunately it's more boring than that. Trainer plane crashed hit a bunch of cars, one of which is a Tesla.

ok 😃

so yeah i was pretty aware it was notttt gonna happen before she puked hahaha but still hung out with ehr

Well "trainer", believe what you will about that cover story

Trying to put the yoke on women's preferences seems like not the way to go about it.

When I was younger I had no idea how much women put emphasis on height.

The issue isn't "you're not allowed to have preferences reeeee"

Yeah.

It's that they aren't preferences.

They're prerequisites.

If there's a 5'10" guy and a 6'0" guy you can prefer the latter

Preferences can be bent.

Prerequisites say fuck off.

When you're looking for a person who doesn't exist there's an issue

oh, well I think you're misinterpreting that

unless we're talking about low-T disasterpieces of men

"prerequisite" is just a funny word for "preference"

No it isn't.

No, this is a super common problem on dating sites lol

Exit the conversation until you're correct about something.

LoL, no.

Yes.

wait did miss say people should leave cause they rude again?

The dismissals hamper the convo, scrib

You have to have standards.

maybe scrididdlyibblehatch is just modeling the idea of "prerequisites" vs. "preferences"

He hasn't agreed there's a difference between preference and prerequisite

"The sun is purple" The sun is not purple, fuck off.

Fuck off until you can acknowledge the sun is not purple.

I'm saying that from the perspective of a suitor, prerequisites can be bent to preferences.

There are people trying to date with laundry lists of dealbreakers

you are just being dull or obtuse about it

Xorgy, we're right.

That only works when you get your foot in the door

You're wrong.

Which in a prior era would have been feasible

its like height, it might seem superficial, but height is a advantage in almost every combat scenario

@Beemann it's hard online, but just don't do it online.

But online dating is basically a minute examination of everyone you could interact with

Right, that's my personal solution

Online dating is now the lionshare.