Message from @xorgy
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Preferences can be bent.
Prerequisites say fuck off.
When you're looking for a person who doesn't exist there's an issue
oh, well I think you're misinterpreting that
unless we're talking about low-T disasterpieces of men
"prerequisite" is just a funny word for "preference"
No it isn't.
No, this is a super common problem on dating sites lol
Exit the conversation until you're correct about something.
LoL, no.
Yes.
wait did miss say people should leave cause they rude again?
The dismissals hamper the convo, scrib
You have to have standards.
maybe scrididdlyibblehatch is just modeling the idea of "prerequisites" vs. "preferences"
He hasn't agreed there's a difference between preference and prerequisite
"The sun is purple" The sun is not purple, fuck off.
Fuck off until you can acknowledge the sun is not purple.
I'm saying that from the perspective of a suitor, prerequisites can be bent to preferences.
There are people trying to date with laundry lists of dealbreakers
Xorgy, we're right.
That only works when you get your foot in the door
You're wrong.
Which in a prior era would have been feasible
its like height, it might seem superficial, but height is a advantage in almost every combat scenario
But online dating is basically a minute examination of everyone you could interact with
Right, that's my personal solution
Online dating is now the lionshare.
But that's pretty much the whole "dating scene" in Vancouver and many other places besides
That's the tragic part.
that's a description though
People aren't really meeting anymore.
just because other people are choosing a bad way to meet people, doesn't mean you have to
The greater problem is that there's no community or trust
There's a reason that this generation has the highest amount of virgins since their grandparents.
When I meet nice girls, it's usually at hobby meetups or professional conferences
The problem is comparative power.
I'm not just talking about sex. Sex just happens to meter what's happening proportionately.
No, that was always a factor, WT