Message from @xorgy

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2018-09-20 16:41:05 UTC  

Preferences can be bent.

2018-09-20 16:41:10 UTC  

Prerequisites say fuck off.

2018-09-20 16:41:12 UTC  

When you're looking for a person who doesn't exist there's an issue

2018-09-20 16:41:16 UTC  

oh, well I think you're misinterpreting that

2018-09-20 16:41:30 UTC  

unless we're talking about low-T disasterpieces of men

2018-09-20 16:41:43 UTC  

"prerequisite" is just a funny word for "preference"

2018-09-20 16:41:47 UTC  

No it isn't.

2018-09-20 16:41:53 UTC  

No, this is a super common problem on dating sites lol

2018-09-20 16:41:57 UTC  

Exit the conversation until you're correct about something.

2018-09-20 16:42:11 UTC  

LoL, no.

2018-09-20 16:42:14 UTC  

Yes.

2018-09-20 16:42:29 UTC  

wait did miss say people should leave cause they rude again?

2018-09-20 16:42:36 UTC  

The dismissals hamper the convo, scrib

2018-09-20 16:43:07 UTC  

You have to have standards.

2018-09-20 16:43:21 UTC  

maybe scrididdlyibblehatch is just modeling the idea of "prerequisites" vs. "preferences"

2018-09-20 16:43:21 UTC  

He hasn't agreed there's a difference between preference and prerequisite

2018-09-20 16:43:30 UTC  

"The sun is purple" The sun is not purple, fuck off.

2018-09-20 16:43:42 UTC  

Fuck off until you can acknowledge the sun is not purple.

2018-09-20 16:43:50 UTC  

I'm saying that from the perspective of a suitor, prerequisites can be bent to preferences.

2018-09-20 16:43:57 UTC  

There are people trying to date with laundry lists of dealbreakers

2018-09-20 16:44:00 UTC  

you are just being dull or obtuse about it

2018-09-20 16:44:05 UTC  

Xorgy, we're right.

2018-09-20 16:44:05 UTC  

That only works when you get your foot in the door

2018-09-20 16:44:06 UTC  

You're wrong.

2018-09-20 16:44:13 UTC  

Which in a prior era would have been feasible

2018-09-20 16:44:26 UTC  

its like height, it might seem superficial, but height is a advantage in almost every combat scenario

2018-09-20 16:44:27 UTC  

@Beemann it's hard online, but just don't do it online.

2018-09-20 16:44:30 UTC  

But online dating is basically a minute examination of everyone you could interact with

2018-09-20 16:44:36 UTC  

Right, that's my personal solution

2018-09-20 16:44:54 UTC  

Online dating is now the lionshare.

2018-09-20 16:44:57 UTC  

But that's pretty much the whole "dating scene" in Vancouver and many other places besides

2018-09-20 16:44:58 UTC  

That's the tragic part.

2018-09-20 16:45:02 UTC  

that's a description though

2018-09-20 16:45:08 UTC  

People aren't really meeting anymore.

2018-09-20 16:45:14 UTC  

just because other people are choosing a bad way to meet people, doesn't mean you have to

2018-09-20 16:45:22 UTC  

The greater problem is that there's no community or trust

2018-09-20 16:45:29 UTC  

There's a reason that this generation has the highest amount of virgins since their grandparents.

2018-09-20 16:45:32 UTC  

When I meet nice girls, it's usually at hobby meetups or professional conferences

2018-09-20 16:45:42 UTC  

The problem is comparative power.

2018-09-20 16:45:51 UTC  

I'm not just talking about sex. Sex just happens to meter what's happening proportionately.

2018-09-20 16:45:56 UTC  

No, that was always a factor, WT