Message from @noid
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One comfort food for me as a kid was pastina with butter and parmesan cheese
My brian just associates that nice smell with intense vomit i cri
we also have a cake which we serve only at funerals and it’s very good
Dominican cake
I need a dominican cake
it’s called coliva look it up
They taste so good, a good cumbly cake a guava filling this really specific tasting frosting
I shall do!
They are also always super pretty and glossy looking oh my
A comfort food for me as a kid was eggo waffles with an american cheese slice in the middle like a sammich....
ziiion
And i did that
So so often
Until a certian age like damn
ready for game night tonight?
Hiui
I'm coming outta work and i didnt sleep last night so tbh i may pass out any minute here
itll be in 2 hours sooo
xD
@noid the cake looks interesting what does it taste like
The make of it seems quite different and humble from a usual cake
That sounds really comforting for a time like a funeral
lol we eat and get drunk at funerals
NICE
Ive never been to a funeral actually
I was going to once but i didnt end up looking into it much, was for this lady who had helped me with some mental stuff my senior year of highschool
She brough service dog puppies to socialize and learn like 2-3 times a week in the school and also took the time to talk to and help some sudents who really needed the help
She was the first one to really get me to understand how anxiety and panic attacks worked and why learning coping methods and controlling the frequency was so important
First moment of clarity I'd had in a long time in high school
Last funeral I was at was for a really important family member to me
She died close to the end of the year. She'd gotten sick and got a blood infection
Died in her sleep
Sorry for your loss came
Its cool, its rolling up on 2 years and its really rough rn..
It comes in stages, 1st year is shock, 2nd is grief
And any mention of her or anything I see that was hers or from her really gets me crying
Im happy she went peacefully
I didnt have many things to say when they called me down
I remember everyone being really sad but i didn't feel similar
I only felt a great respect and gratitude towards the good she'd done for so many and was happy she went peacefully
but me and my mom are getting tattoos of dragonflys in memory of her
That's good
its said that after the death of someone, certain things happen
and seeing a ton of dragonflies is one
and thats what me and my mom kept seeing