If she was transferred from another school she may well have been expelled for exactly this behaviour

in other news,

i wonder how much of a inpact anxiety and crap has had on my childhood

Try not to let it mate is the only thing I can say. There's no way to tell rn

ive also been bullied often sense 3rd grade and havent had many friends until 9th grade (this year)

when i did have friends there all female 99% of the time

though im happy my social skills or whatever, has improved because i like having a friend group, there good people

Having female friends isn't a bad thing, that they are people you get along with is what matters

its difficult to talk to dudes because they have been the issues at school for the most of my life (nearly drving me to suicide in 6th and 7th grade) I dont feel like that anymore

telling someone that was hard to

Girls tend to bully people in different ways, by cutting them off, ignoring them, or looking down on them, sometimes using social media. Guys are more likely to be physically violent

Of course those are just generalities... And in general, high school can be a really crappy place to be

they have said they do it because i hang around girls mostly and have autism and i behave and think to "feminime"

Doesn't matter why they do it mate, doesn't make them not shitty people for doing it. I know that doesn't really help, but you should be free to associate with whoever you want

Good look with everything

She sounds absolutely crazy. Have you asked to be re-seated?

If you want, you could write it up for our next sexual harassment article on www.menarehumam.com

What she is doing is disgusting and very deranged. I hope for your sake she is a liar, but maybe tell the teacher and your parents

Might also be worth varying your walk home and sticking to public areas if you can. Stay safe, alright?

A little late to the party, but she is absolutely crazy. When I heard about the sex stuff I thought she was just flirting with you in a very immature and twisted way, that isn't okay by the way, but by the end of it I have pretty much nothing else remotely nice to say about her. Your guy friend is wrong by the way, being a man doesn't mean you can't be raped or can't suffer trauma. I heard once that a soldier got raped by a pregnant woman who said he'd hurt the baby if he resisted. So yeah, even if you're buff as fuck and can fight back, which not all men are, sometimes the mental shock of the situation or your attacker's manipulation can keep you from resisting

something i'd recommend to everyone is being as healthy as possibly. id personally vouch for paleo/keto/intermittent fasting, but you can just start by cutting out soda, alcohol, candy, junk, too many grains, etc

*possible. damn i make a lot of grammar/syntax errors when i type without noticing

@blueorange22 but rum and ginger beer is okay yeah? xD

I drank about 15 cups of coffee a day, with 16 packets of sugar in each. I used to have 2,000 calories of JUST sugar sometimes. For some, it's soda; for some, it's gaming; for some, it's porn. You know who you are. If there is something taking up too much of your time, attention, money, peace of mind, joy...you'll know it because you'll hear yourself say sentences that begin with "I wish."
The recommendation I make is to recognize what makes you "worse," and how you could be if that were completely replaced with its opposite. You now have a spectrum: the complete obliteration of your life by one thing, and the complete retribution of your life by the other extreme. Visuals help. Draw it, write it! Make a scatterplot or a gif or an oragami dragon - you know you better than I.
Now, infuse one side with the other. I now MUST drink 2 full 24 oz cups of water before I can have my first cup of coffee. I MUST tell a coworker how many packets of sugar I used. Then, I added more water and detracted more sugar. Months. Addictions aren't overnight. It takes 21 days to rewrite a habit with another, and another week before it begins to firmly take hold, and your body and mind will fight you. Start small, but START. Be accountable. BE PROUD OF YOUR PROGRESS!
I now drink no more than 4 cups of coffee a day, and none past 6PM. I use 6 packets of sugar. I've also cut down on my gaming. I'm using these tried and proven skills to work other areas of my life. Be better men, brothers.

I used to just eat whatever I wanted and not care about exercise and stuff. I started really slowly cutting back and building up the exercise I do every day. Lost 30lb and gained a lot of muscle mass. I never did but cutting out fizzy drinks really helps. You can trick yourself with exercise to only doing a tiny bit more each day, and before you know it you are doing a lot so long as you keep it up.

@Dan da Dad That's so much, I kinda thought you were joking at first. I'm glad you are cutting back.

Maybe switch to decaff. You probably won't even notice the change-over.

I know I have problems with gaming addiction, it’s something I will have to deal with in future, escapism is pretty nice when you are living in shit conditions

There was a time where I got really sucked into those “free to play” games and that proved quite detrimental, I won’t touch those anymore

Do you mean the ones that have in game purchases and stuff? I hate those

Yeah, they ruined me for a bit, I was really depressed at the time and that shit was like crack

:<

I can say from experience that those games prey on the vulnerable, I was spending upwards of 300$ a week on those things, barely ever had any money left over

Those really basic gatcha style mobile games

Omg that's so much... I guess it's pretty similar to kids spending their parents money on lootboxes?

Yeah, it was pretty toxic, and I have to watch myself because I get sucked into that kind of stuff very easy

Started avoiding free to play games all together

But then I got Overwatch and spent a fair bit on loot boxes that I didn’t have the money for

Oof... You're ok with warcraft though right?

Yeah, it’s a fixed subscription, so $15 a month, they have some store stuff but a lot of them is just a buy and receive (mounts and pets and stuff)

It’s not perfect but it’s much better at least xD