Message from @Abbysol

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2018-12-10 08:59:58 UTC  

but isn't that only because they'll thank you later?

2018-12-10 09:00:01 UTC  

Ha. Well my point is yes, maybe they can have a better life. But if it doesn't seem like it, forcing them to stay is no better than slavery

2018-12-10 09:00:35 UTC  

Yeah, at what point do you really have the right to decide for someone else that they should suffer through turning their lives around? (assuming that, of course, it is possible for everyone)

2018-12-10 09:00:47 UTC  

Well I've had my flashes since before university. It sucks but I have shit to do

2018-12-10 09:01:07 UTC  

But that's just me.

2018-12-10 09:02:11 UTC  

I don't think it should be illegal which it isn't but i don't think it should be legalised. I think the conversation can change without that change

2018-12-10 09:02:39 UTC  

What is currently illegal is helping someone else do so safely

2018-12-10 09:02:49 UTC  

I think it should be legalised but under very, very heavy regulations

2018-12-10 09:03:05 UTC  

As opposed to terribly geurilla and painfully

2018-12-10 09:03:09 UTC  

Safe is a strange word to use for death

2018-12-10 09:03:13 UTC  

Its not easy to talk about something you're thinking about doing under the threat of getting sectioned.

2018-12-10 09:03:20 UTC  

But I get it

2018-12-10 09:03:56 UTC  

@InsaneCaterpilla that's true but that's not been my experience

2018-12-10 09:04:02 UTC  

I mean, I’ve had my dad scream at me to help him take his life, he fine now

2018-12-10 09:04:32 UTC  

@Abbysol I'm really sorry but he'd be fine if he was dead, too

2018-12-10 09:04:38 UTC  

It may be a strange word, but "safe", as in, read this and consider the result of the failure states: http://lostallhope.com/suicide-methods/firearms. And as far as failure states go, that one is relatively mild.

2018-12-10 09:04:43 UTC  

:s

2018-12-10 09:04:57 UTC  

No, if he was dead he was have missed his sons graduation today

2018-12-10 09:05:19 UTC  

No, dead people don't miss anything.

2018-12-10 09:05:25 UTC  

They lack that ability

2018-12-10 09:06:14 UTC  

I doubt he would agree with you, especially since it doesn’t just take your own life because it also hurts the people who care about you

2018-12-10 09:06:35 UTC  

Dead people can't agree either. I'm sorry, they just can't.

2018-12-10 09:08:00 UTC  

Being dead is an end to such concerns.

2018-12-10 09:08:31 UTC  

Then it is also Inherently selfish

2018-12-10 09:08:57 UTC  

It sure isn't altrustic, but one has to consider how much of a claim the world has on your life

2018-12-10 09:09:07 UTC  

Well, scratch that

2018-12-10 09:09:10 UTC  

It can sometimes be altruistic

2018-12-10 09:09:12 UTC  

but still

2018-12-10 09:10:58 UTC  

If your actual quality of life if gone, genuinely gone, then fine, let people die with dignity, but not if you are young, healthy, and have the capacity to seek help.

2018-12-10 09:12:03 UTC  

Hrm, are suicidal people inherently unhealthy?

2018-12-10 09:13:06 UTC  

If not, what of cases of young and healthy people who lack a reason to live, who feel meaningless?

2018-12-10 09:13:27 UTC  

Depends, if your life is just shit right now then no, wanting an easy out isn’t that abnormal, however on something like severe clinical depression, it gets a little less clear

2018-12-10 09:13:50 UTC  

It is possible for someone's life to be "just shit right now" for a rather extended period of time

2018-12-10 09:14:07 UTC  

Yes, but there is still that distinction

2018-12-10 09:14:13 UTC  

fair enough

2018-12-10 09:14:41 UTC  

My Aunt committed suicide, all of the shrinks said it was an inevitability because of her severe bipolar

2018-12-10 09:14:41 UTC  

Though I think the DSM V makes it hard to distinguish between the two

2018-12-10 09:14:44 UTC  

Yeah my bad days are hopeless. Good days I'm like "what was my problem?"

2018-12-10 09:15:41 UTC  

@James For that reason I think a sane euthanasia law would establish a months-long waiting period

2018-12-10 09:16:01 UTC  

Evaluation for something like this wouldn’t be a one off session, with consistent sessions with the same person

2018-12-10 09:16:11 UTC  

That's an interesting be dynamic