Message from @Wojak

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2019-03-02 14:08:17 UTC  

The law would have to look at teenagers to roll its eyes at them, might be more accurate.

2019-03-02 14:08:34 UTC  

I suspect more than several mysterious shank implements have been introduced to rape victims by someone's under-the-table idea of "fixing" the problem without reporting it.

2019-03-02 14:08:48 UTC  

Knew more than a few kids with known histories of parental abuse, immediately returned home on house arrest.

2019-03-02 14:08:52 UTC  

Fixes two problems, right? Who cares if the criminal gets more time, right?

2019-03-02 14:09:07 UTC  

I know how this shit works. And there's a reason I have zero respect for the law.

2019-03-02 14:09:43 UTC  

Yep; patch the pipe. No one cares if the water's clean, stop the leak and move on.

2019-03-02 14:10:06 UTC  

You also see a lot of victims of Munchausen's by proxy.

2019-03-02 14:10:13 UTC  

"He's crazy. No really."

2019-03-02 14:10:30 UTC  

And how does a _not_ crazy teenager prove his _mother_ is the insane one? He doesn't.

2019-03-02 14:10:33 UTC  

He's never given the chance.

2019-03-02 14:11:00 UTC  

If he tries, well, he's a narcissist who thinks he's superior to his poor innocent mother.

2019-03-02 14:11:08 UTC  

Lots of very bad "psychiatrists" on government pay.

2019-03-02 14:11:23 UTC  

That was both common and explicitly unaddressed. And at the time I would have had something approaching a "professional" capacity to deal with it, I was a psych student who had no clue what to practically look for.

2019-03-02 14:11:41 UTC  

I do. And I want to burn the industry to the ground.

2019-03-02 14:11:53 UTC  

You're actually still in?

2019-03-02 14:12:09 UTC  

HELL no. I saw the product, I talked to them, I _listened_ and investigated.

2019-03-02 14:12:14 UTC  

And NOPED right the fuck off that idea.

2019-03-02 14:12:24 UTC  

I do not think, one instant, that any fucker who works in those facilities is a good person.

2019-03-02 14:12:38 UTC  

They're all power craving lunatics who want easy ways to abuse power and justify their superiority.

2019-03-02 14:12:45 UTC  

It _attracts_ narcissists.

2019-03-02 14:12:56 UTC  

It _attracts_ people who abuse authority.

2019-03-02 14:13:05 UTC  

Because teenagers are the single most vulnerable population - and they know it.

2019-03-02 14:13:17 UTC  

Jesus, was about to say. I was fool enough to think that one degree of separation into 'private sector' clinics would help, but yeah; same folk, different clothing.

2019-03-02 14:13:25 UTC  

Hooooly shit no.

2019-03-02 14:13:29 UTC  

It's no better.

2019-03-02 14:13:36 UTC  

Oh, I know that now.

2019-03-02 14:14:33 UTC  

Once upon a time I almost did university with the intent of working to help people like that. Good for me I was smart enough to do investigating first. A lot of it.

2019-03-02 14:14:42 UTC  

Chose to major in mathematics instead.

2019-03-02 14:14:50 UTC  

But spent all my time doing psychology anyway.

2019-03-02 14:15:04 UTC  

Psychology has sort of rotted to the core. Lack of control and filtering.

2019-03-02 14:15:21 UTC  

There's no checks and balances against abuses of power and authority.

2019-03-02 14:15:30 UTC  

I have experienced that even a good psychiatrist is still not helpful.
They at best can offer general advice you can get in a 5 minute google search. (IE Fight depression with exercise and forcing social interaction.)
Or poor advice. (IE You should forgive and continue to interact with your abusers because they are related to you and you will regret not doing so.)

2019-03-02 14:15:32 UTC  

It's hideous how that occurs in a field where it should be MOST prevalent. MOST cautious.

2019-03-02 14:16:09 UTC  

I was in seminary for 2 years, straight out of high school. Psych and Divinity and they set me up in a government joint over the summers for the former. Two organizations I washed out of, though the church was a... much more explosive one.

2019-03-02 14:16:24 UTC  

To be fair, Kragt, you often do have to exercise and force social interaction. inasmuch as you can stand it.

2019-03-02 14:16:33 UTC  

A good psychologist would help you figure out how.

2019-03-02 14:16:39 UTC  

Just being told "do this" doesn't help.

2019-03-02 14:16:55 UTC  

>Seminary

2019-03-02 14:16:58 UTC  

oooooh

2019-03-02 14:17:13 UTC  

@Kragt They're also not being taught to help you, only what they need to manage your symptoms.

2019-03-02 14:17:14 UTC  

I was a jehovah's witness until I turned 14. Got out of that one in a hurry.