Message from @the adventures male
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@machtyn Nice. I say that the typical "self-help" approach doesn't work for two reasons 1) there is a contradiction between "self-help" and the very selves that attempt to try these methods. How can it be called "self-help" if not all "selves" are the same? Its advertised as a one-size-fits-all yet its "self-help", not "everyone do this set of things called "self-help" and still be separate from the other sets of people doing the exact same thing.
True, there is a lot of nuance within developing yourself. I guess it's more "these things worked for me and since we're the same species it might help you too." Even that is valuable.
Less porn
And secondly, 2) What happens when you get bored of the "self-help" strategies and you find yourself in a slump again? How many times do you have to work-out to alleviate anxiety before you start building up tolerances to the amount of times that you work out in order to fend of anxiety? It doesn't seem that these typical strategies are robust enough to deal an entire multitude of different aspects.
@ZODD You are 100% right after I changed my manu. I stated to feel better
You need to fight your fear head on
And then you start to feel more relexd
Mgtow is also about acceptance
@the adventures male I only view porn/masturbation as cleaning the pipes. I don't watch hardcore porn - only weird softcore shit. It's weird and probably it's own fetish but I don't need much to get going. I actually prefer my imagination. Anyways, I did go down that route of NoFap but I only PMO 3-4 times a week.
@Seven Of Swords I totally see your point. I think being okay with yourself is the most important. I do find I need some physical activity every day since I work behind a keyboard.
@machtyn Gotcha.
I think the basics: sleep 7.5-9 hours at consistent fall/wake times, drink x amount of water, eat vegetables/healthy fats, exercise at least 3 hours a week, lift heavy things, learn something new every day or otherwise challenge yourself; are all good basics. I do agree it can get out of hand and become silly or a parody of itself.
Another Mgtow fuel, All women think they are entitald to our affaction!!! Do not give them compliments
@the adventures male , what is your primary language ? are you bi-lingual ?
I know a lor of lenguages
in varius levals
lot*
ah , i see, Well your more skilled than me thats for sure 🤔
I need to polish my lenguages
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It's nice to see that there are so many other MGTOW. Eveyerwhere I go its all about respecting the whamen (California)
I like to think mgotw is everywhere they just don't talk about it in public
We are a minority In Israel
well I mean we're a minority everywhere
And there are a lot of Mgtow that don't know our group
@Andrew The Meme King you Live in a Dream World
@Goro Majima How is CA/west coast? I plan on living out there depending on job availability. I work in technology.
California is a Liberal Cuck Fest, Prepare for terror
How old are you my brothers?
@ZODD Yeah, I noticed that vibe but honestly I might be better in that space.
I am 24.
Like on what factor @machtyn like crime wise or weather?
19
@Goro Majima Your general impression on all factors you want to discuss.
I never lived there but it is obviously the epicenter to liberal/progressive politics/ideology since it's a very creative space.
I plan on moving there but never discussing politics, religion or personal finance 😄
I'd say besides the expensive as fuck housing it's not a bad place to live. I live near LA and it tends to be peaceful
Yeah never say you voted from drumpf otherwise you'll have people try to run you over