Message from @A-B rebel
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@Artemis Tell me where the place is.
Are there Moslems here?
Some does not mean a large portion.
Some simply means that exceptions exist but not in large numbers.
@Mysteriedingens it is not a dream of mine. I am not gay.
His "some" are just the girls with proper nurturing from a father figure without getting spoonfed with narcissism and princess-indoctrination. But this girls still have always options other than you.
back in VC
@Artemis what was your longest relationship
alright
Nice discussion btw
@Mysteriedingens again, that seems to be an awfully pessimistic way to look at it. Of course they have other options, but each and everyone could be that exact option for somebody
Zero months. Never had a serious relationship. @Mysteriedingens
Dude, that's some naive bluepilled thinking. A lot of men have walked that path and have gotten burned, for how things are now, you're taking a pretty big of a risk.
You stand to gain nothing from a relationship and quite a lot to lose.
What risk?
Losing the stuff you've earned, your kids etc.,
Child support
@Artemis I dont want to discard your arguments. But i want to tell you that the things you see of a relationship from outside are not even near the stuff happening just between the two people. You still have the dream of finding a soulmate. I understand this hope and it is a dream every man has or had to some extent. You will end up getting hurt trying yourself in such a relationship. As soon you love someone, she has control over you.
Love is sacrificial I've heard, problem is the sacrifice is mostly for a knife in your back in the end and some corrupted memories.
Love for a man is to give love and get respected for it, love for a woman is to feel submissive but still be loved by the superior being. I have never seen a woman who dated downwards longterm. never.
Okay, I should probably have told you that I am not a man by now. Curiousity led me here and I will leave since I am not a man on my own way.
Thanks for answering the questions and telling about this topic.
I am still convinced that women and men could potentially function as a couple - without ill intention and regardless of what we desire naturally.
@EmptyEagle yes, it is not always sun and roses. Pain is part of it always. So what?
I wont stop you from trying yourself in that regards. Just dont lay out your resources to her. After you got burned into the ground, you will understand. I've gone the same way as you.
@Artemis The question is how many knifes does a person have to take to get a "good" relationship. Then even those could fail but this knife has financial consequences. So when is enought pain is enought?
Do y'all have mother issues or something of that nature? I am positive a woman can love a man just as much as he can love her.
you lack experience.
@Artemis everyone in here already knew that you were a woman by the third line
@Artemis Shame isn't a good idea here, but I have both parents. Doesn't change how many men are being hurt everyday.
If you believe, so go ahead, sign up for a relationship or a marriage.
@EmptyEagle the thing is that pain will always be there. No pain at all forever would equal death. You can't successfully go around avoiding it for a very long time. Pain is life. That shouldn't stop you from anything
It's your life at the end of the day anyways.
@Artemis this mother issue/ you are just a loser / blabla always comes up discussing with women.
They just cant wrap their head around not being desired.
Also my parents are still together and it doesn't take mommy issues to understand how women are.
Calm down. It wasn't meant in a degrading way at all. It was a serious question.
@Artemis If you have a hand on a stove will you just sit there and say "pain is apart of life" Or will move your hand to stop getting directly hurt? Your saying to keep a hand on a stove just because other things can hurt in life too.
are you planning to turn into a male by transition as you phrased your sentences weird
very bad idea