Message from @Lilu

Discord ID: 500759756932120587


2018-10-13 19:44:50 UTC  

just kidding.....a light joke

2018-10-13 19:45:52 UTC  

No it's just refreshing to see older mgtows

2018-10-13 19:45:59 UTC  

Most I met are 18-25

2018-10-13 19:46:19 UTC  

As they should be!

2018-10-13 19:47:26 UTC  

Whats up Gents?

2018-10-13 19:47:28 UTC  

Mind you I'm 18 myself

2018-10-13 19:47:29 UTC  

There is a percentage of GenX men (mid forties to early fifties) that never married, and were MGTOW before there ever was a term.....no, we didn't "invent" this......but there was no where to go.....and for awhile in the 1990's esp....I really thought something was wrong with me

2018-10-13 19:47:49 UTC  

Nothing much, just cleaning up my digital space

2018-10-13 19:47:54 UTC  

Wbu

2018-10-13 19:48:23 UTC  

@Deleted User same with me. I spent most of my life thinking that there was no one else like me.

2018-10-13 19:48:28 UTC  

Not sure how to change my name on here. One of the mods thought they were being funny lol

2018-10-13 19:48:44 UTC  

hanging at home......gotta workout in a bit...older guys gotta work to keep the weight off.......losing my hair fast....but a cold day in hel;l when I am "overweight"

2018-10-13 19:48:52 UTC  

Bad luck. This server doesn't allow custom names : |

2018-10-13 19:50:01 UTC  

I think being bald is badass

2018-10-13 19:50:16 UTC  

Lots of guys are too scared to shave their heads off

2018-10-13 19:57:56 UTC  

yeah me too Lilu.....after the "rage" died down, and after I tired of the drink and drugs........and just "feeling sorry for myself" began the change and process of "okay, bad luck.....not fair.........why....why....why........so.......what do you want now??????"

2018-10-13 19:58:29 UTC  

@ yes sounds very familiar

2018-10-13 19:59:25 UTC  

At that point I began to see this MRA MGTOW thing.....and I disliked MRA because it wanted to work with women, have lobbyists, offices, and "leaders" speaking for me. No. I'll speak for myself thank you.......and MRA's seemed to be very hostile to men like myself who were professed Christians, or Muslims, or Jews

2018-10-13 19:59:34 UTC  

At some point someone asked me if I was MGTOW and I said " what is that? ".

2018-10-13 20:00:00 UTC  

So I looked it up and discovered that there were others like me

2018-10-13 20:00:29 UTC  

When I was a kid people used to describe me as " doing my own thing ".

2018-10-13 20:00:40 UTC  

lol

2018-10-13 20:01:05 UTC  

so when I found men " going their own way " I suddenly realized that I was born MGTOW.

2018-10-13 20:02:25 UTC  

The younger guys don't have it "easier" but they do have the resources up front and there. They too will have moments of despair, hurt, or feeling cheated.....it's guys like at at that point who can say "hey......you'll be okay"

2018-10-13 20:02:50 UTC  

*like us at that point

2018-10-13 20:06:38 UTC  

Lilu.....let me ask........you remember 1992. That to me.......and I was 26 at the time.......that was the year when PC culture suddenly became "normalized" and suddenly everyone started to be "offended" at anything and everything........did you notice that back then???

2018-10-13 20:07:43 UTC  

@hel changing names is for mods only

2018-10-13 20:10:36 UTC  

My job sent me and all "white men" to "diversity training" where a militant woman from HR and a "person of color" would lecture us about how easy we have it, and how our company is about teamwork (no....our company was supposed to building a high quality product, didn't matter what color you were...do you job). I also remember the term "lookism" going mainstream that year and women getting much more aggressive sexually and also at the same time, demanding men to an "acceeesory role or fixture to them"

2018-10-13 20:11:40 UTC  

@Roughneck Riggs I've changed your name back, Jacko you fucking Drunko.

2018-10-13 20:11:52 UTC  

@Deleted User I was debating No Fap/Porn but honestly I love this tenga fleshlight thing haha. No shame.

2018-10-13 20:11:54 UTC  

Dude

2018-10-13 20:12:10 UTC  

It will hold me over until I get back to having sex unless I really desire not to go back.

2018-10-13 20:12:25 UTC  

mach.....that's up to you 😃

2018-10-13 20:12:41 UTC  

@Deleted User No Fap is simply torture with no benefits. As long as you're not addicted to it, then it's okay.

2018-10-13 20:12:53 UTC  

Actually at least minimizing porn is beneficial

2018-10-13 20:13:34 UTC  

This is TMI but I watch porn for 5-10 mins whenever I do do the deed and I only do the deed once every few days (3-4 days usually).

2018-10-13 20:13:51 UTC  

I had fun hunting women before but now it just seems like a waste of time.

2018-10-13 20:13:54 UTC  

@machtyn I think that's healthy.

2018-10-13 20:13:55 UTC  

It can help hel......and when I was 30, I would have disagreed....but even before I became a Christian.......I was laying off it, and I did notice a difference in work, dreams, drive, ability and energy

2018-10-13 20:14:23 UTC  

@Deleted User Yeah, I think the beginning of every month I am going to completely abstain for a week or two.

2018-10-13 20:14:34 UTC  

I AM GONNA MAKE A FAPPING SCHEDULE