Message from @hel
Discord ID: 500757184125075471
For me whenever I followed through on attraction I was always disappointed. Best case scenario is that I would bust a nut and feel like it wasn't even worth the calories that I burned. But my experience is probably not normal.
Me? I'm semi-retired...freaking busy.........varried interests...some cool skills, had some cool adventures (and a few more coming up) and I am much happier now at 52 than I was at 35. Much better now
47 here and I agree my life gets better each year. All of my married friends are miserable or at least 90% of them are anyway.
Old MGTOWs? Hell yeah!
(Old is in the mind btw)
Dude.....I'm middle aged, and fully admit......I could not compete with a younger cat sexually or in looks and youth. It's a fact! Sigh.....youth is wasted on the young 😃
just kidding.....a light joke
No it's just refreshing to see older mgtows
Most I met are 18-25
As they should be!
Whats up Gents?
Mind you I'm 18 myself
There is a percentage of GenX men (mid forties to early fifties) that never married, and were MGTOW before there ever was a term.....no, we didn't "invent" this......but there was no where to go.....and for awhile in the 1990's esp....I really thought something was wrong with me
Nothing much, just cleaning up my digital space
Wbu
@Deleted User same with me. I spent most of my life thinking that there was no one else like me.
Not sure how to change my name on here. One of the mods thought they were being funny lol
hanging at home......gotta workout in a bit...older guys gotta work to keep the weight off.......losing my hair fast....but a cold day in hel;l when I am "overweight"
Bad luck. This server doesn't allow custom names : |
I think being bald is badass
yeah me too Lilu.....after the "rage" died down, and after I tired of the drink and drugs........and just "feeling sorry for myself" began the change and process of "okay, bad luck.....not fair.........why....why....why........so.......what do you want now??????"
@ yes sounds very familiar
At that point I began to see this MRA MGTOW thing.....and I disliked MRA because it wanted to work with women, have lobbyists, offices, and "leaders" speaking for me. No. I'll speak for myself thank you.......and MRA's seemed to be very hostile to men like myself who were professed Christians, or Muslims, or Jews
At some point someone asked me if I was MGTOW and I said " what is that? ".
So I looked it up and discovered that there were others like me
When I was a kid people used to describe me as " doing my own thing ".
lol
so when I found men " going their own way " I suddenly realized that I was born MGTOW.
The younger guys don't have it "easier" but they do have the resources up front and there. They too will have moments of despair, hurt, or feeling cheated.....it's guys like at at that point who can say "hey......you'll be okay"
*like us at that point
Lilu.....let me ask........you remember 1992. That to me.......and I was 26 at the time.......that was the year when PC culture suddenly became "normalized" and suddenly everyone started to be "offended" at anything and everything........did you notice that back then???
@hel changing names is for mods only
My job sent me and all "white men" to "diversity training" where a militant woman from HR and a "person of color" would lecture us about how easy we have it, and how our company is about teamwork (no....our company was supposed to building a high quality product, didn't matter what color you were...do you job). I also remember the term "lookism" going mainstream that year and women getting much more aggressive sexually and also at the same time, demanding men to an "acceeesory role or fixture to them"
@Roughneck Riggs I've changed your name back, Jacko you fucking Drunko.
@Deleted User I was debating No Fap/Porn but honestly I love this tenga fleshlight thing haha. No shame.
Dude
It will hold me over until I get back to having sex unless I really desire not to go back.
mach.....that's up to you 😃
@Deleted User No Fap is simply torture with no benefits. As long as you're not addicted to it, then it's okay.
Actually at least minimizing porn is beneficial