Message from @hel

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2018-10-17 12:28:31 UTC  

DM

2018-10-17 12:28:42 UTC  

You don't have meme permissions 😦

2018-10-17 12:29:24 UTC  

Same here. But it has truth in it.

2018-10-17 12:29:30 UTC  

Women need men more than men need women.

2018-10-17 12:30:43 UTC  

Well said. Valuable info @hel

2018-10-17 12:30:53 UTC  

Yeah, it makes me turn into a bit of a simp sometimes with my sister/mom and a few times with a girl I was seeing.

2018-10-17 12:31:13 UTC  

The Rational Male states that only mothers love you unconditionally.

2018-10-17 12:31:19 UTC  

Referring to 'zoning' and whatnot

2018-10-17 12:31:19 UTC  

She would always have drama and her world collapsing. EVERY fucking week. I ended it after 6 months but it was fucking insane.

2018-10-17 12:31:29 UTC  

You can still love women, but always keep in mind that they will not love you back the way you want to.

2018-10-17 12:31:44 UTC  

Nobody really loves you unconditionally.

2018-10-17 12:31:51 UTC  

@?? {Q} Thanks bro. Read up on Stoicism if you find this interesting.

2018-10-17 12:31:54 UTC  

Even your mother still has expectations off of you.

2018-10-17 12:32:02 UTC  

Even a dog does.

2018-10-17 12:32:32 UTC  

I've read/researched a bit but will definitely delve more into it

2018-10-17 12:32:45 UTC  

Thanks @hel

2018-10-17 12:33:02 UTC  

No problem : D

2018-10-17 12:34:25 UTC  

Whoops I meant zooming lol. I kind of came to the same conclusion from watching International Space Station livestreams but it's dope to find out it's been expanded upon.

2018-10-17 12:35:03 UTC  

Though I should've known. Nothing is completely 'new'

2018-10-17 12:35:26 UTC  

@hel I like Stoicism. The only thing I disagree with is the core tenet that we can't control anything so might as well not worry about it. I think we can control our small circle of influence and shouldn't worry but need to strive for excellence.

2018-10-17 12:36:35 UTC  

If you're stuck in a traffic jam, I wouldn't worry about that. But if you're fat, then worrying is great cause it helps you make the first step towards losing weight.

2018-10-17 12:37:09 UTC  

Exactly.

2018-10-17 12:37:15 UTC  

If you're truly content with yourself, why strive for 'excellence' ?

2018-10-17 12:37:27 UTC  

I don't think that's what it means, it simply means that you don't need to worry about things you can't change.

2018-10-17 12:37:49 UTC  

Stoicism can offload responsibility too easily. "Ah, it is fate I am bankrupt and fat." No... you're terrible with income/expense in both food and money.

2018-10-17 12:37:58 UTC  
2018-10-17 12:38:08 UTC  

@hel If I am not growing I feel like I am dying.

2018-10-17 12:38:42 UTC  

That line of thinking has certainly helped me in ways, like I used to think I am too small and insignificant and that it sucks to think that I can't change things and I learned that it is what it is, that I don't need to beat myself about it.

2018-10-17 12:38:54 UTC  

Seems like you got the 'memento mori' part down.

2018-10-17 12:39:17 UTC  

Exactly.

2018-10-17 12:39:27 UTC  

There is a fine line between indifference vs. stoicism.

2018-10-17 12:39:43 UTC  

The example of being fat and broke is indifference rather than being stoic.

2018-10-17 12:40:30 UTC  

Hey

2018-10-17 12:40:36 UTC  

Alright I am off to work!

2018-10-17 12:40:53 UTC  

Good luck, friend.

2018-10-17 12:41:43 UTC  

Take care, @machtyn.

2018-10-17 12:45:34 UTC  

Hello everyone

2018-10-17 12:46:12 UTC  

I've just watched tfm video "it's NOT the economy, stupid"

2018-10-17 12:46:38 UTC  

And I must say that is filled with good arguments

2018-10-17 12:47:48 UTC  

And it also gave me a glimpse about tfm's strategy and persona

2018-10-17 12:48:39 UTC  

He's more smart then I thought