Message from @hel

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2018-10-17 12:24:08 UTC  

@MufflePuff Yes! It finally clicked when I graduated and started working... I used to BINGE learn. I would just learn a ton of stuff but then I switched to "just in time" learning and would write out to-do lists on projects, then as I started building something, I'd learn the pre-req knowledge required to do it.

2018-10-17 12:24:23 UTC  

@hel I am debating making that my entire weekend.

2018-10-17 12:24:53 UTC  

@hel I have been listening to this vikings meditation thing that's pretty amazing and I really do value just sitting in nature and chilling.

2018-10-17 12:24:57 UTC  

OH MY GOD

2018-10-17 12:25:05 UTC  

You too?

2018-10-17 12:25:11 UTC  

#KillSlowMode

2018-10-17 12:25:18 UTC  

#SlowModeSucksCock

2018-10-17 12:25:31 UTC  

The one for masculinity or the one for success?

2018-10-17 12:25:32 UTC  

@hel Yes! I forget who recommended it... but it was somewhere here.

2018-10-17 12:25:44 UTC  

I think it's the only one on youtube lol

2018-10-17 12:27:19 UTC  

There's a hypnosis session for 'No More Mr Nice Guy'. But it's a bit longer than your regular guided meditation.

2018-10-17 12:27:28 UTC  

Link?

2018-10-17 12:27:41 UTC  

I'd check that one out. I sometimes fall into nice guy.

2018-10-17 12:28:25 UTC  

It's more of a personal issue but does anyone else struggle viewing women as broken creatures in need of fixing? I was raised by a single mom, with a sister, so I was always the one they turned to to fix stuff and my mom treated me like a husband.

2018-10-17 12:28:31 UTC  

DM

2018-10-17 12:28:42 UTC  

You don't have meme permissions 😦

2018-10-17 12:29:24 UTC  

Same here. But it has truth in it.

2018-10-17 12:29:30 UTC  

Women need men more than men need women.

2018-10-17 12:30:43 UTC  

Well said. Valuable info @hel

2018-10-17 12:30:53 UTC  

Yeah, it makes me turn into a bit of a simp sometimes with my sister/mom and a few times with a girl I was seeing.

2018-10-17 12:31:13 UTC  

The Rational Male states that only mothers love you unconditionally.

2018-10-17 12:31:19 UTC  

Referring to 'zoning' and whatnot

2018-10-17 12:31:19 UTC  

She would always have drama and her world collapsing. EVERY fucking week. I ended it after 6 months but it was fucking insane.

2018-10-17 12:31:29 UTC  

You can still love women, but always keep in mind that they will not love you back the way you want to.

2018-10-17 12:31:44 UTC  

Nobody really loves you unconditionally.

2018-10-17 12:31:51 UTC  

@?? {Q} Thanks bro. Read up on Stoicism if you find this interesting.

2018-10-17 12:31:54 UTC  

Even your mother still has expectations off of you.

2018-10-17 12:32:02 UTC  

Even a dog does.

2018-10-17 12:32:32 UTC  

I've read/researched a bit but will definitely delve more into it

2018-10-17 12:32:45 UTC  

Thanks @hel

2018-10-17 12:33:02 UTC  

No problem : D

2018-10-17 12:34:25 UTC  

Whoops I meant zooming lol. I kind of came to the same conclusion from watching International Space Station livestreams but it's dope to find out it's been expanded upon.

2018-10-17 12:35:03 UTC  

Though I should've known. Nothing is completely 'new'

2018-10-17 12:35:26 UTC  

@hel I like Stoicism. The only thing I disagree with is the core tenet that we can't control anything so might as well not worry about it. I think we can control our small circle of influence and shouldn't worry but need to strive for excellence.

2018-10-17 12:36:35 UTC  

If you're stuck in a traffic jam, I wouldn't worry about that. But if you're fat, then worrying is great cause it helps you make the first step towards losing weight.

2018-10-17 12:37:09 UTC  

Exactly.

2018-10-17 12:37:15 UTC  

If you're truly content with yourself, why strive for 'excellence' ?

2018-10-17 12:37:27 UTC  

I don't think that's what it means, it simply means that you don't need to worry about things you can't change.

2018-10-17 12:37:49 UTC  

Stoicism can offload responsibility too easily. "Ah, it is fate I am bankrupt and fat." No... you're terrible with income/expense in both food and money.

2018-10-17 12:37:58 UTC  
2018-10-17 12:38:08 UTC  

@hel If I am not growing I feel like I am dying.