Message from @hel

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2018-10-17 12:20:43 UTC  

That's true 😄

2018-10-17 12:20:46 UTC  

@machtyn that’s a solid plan man. Honestly you’ve already done the hardest part in figuring it out.

2018-10-17 12:21:07 UTC  

Check out minimalism. It's letting go of things that don't serve you anymore.

2018-10-17 12:21:16 UTC  

Learn gardening, sewing, etc.,

2018-10-17 12:21:18 UTC  

@MufflePuff Yeah. I want these next 14 months to be totally dedicated to ME and my habits. I want to cement these fuckers in place so it's second nature.

2018-10-17 12:21:24 UTC  

A musical instrument.

2018-10-17 12:21:42 UTC  

I'd want to learn those really, to learn how to cook, to be able to sew, make cosplay props etc.,

2018-10-17 12:21:46 UTC  

@hel Bro 😄 I own a total of 100 items. No lie. I own nothing. I LOVE minimalism. I discovered minimalism when I was 15.

2018-10-17 12:22:28 UTC  

So much freedom that you don't know what to do with it, yep.

2018-10-17 12:22:38 UTC  

@ColdEmbraceOfDeath I've looked at so many hobby lists online and honestly nothing really piques my interest. I really really love technology/engineering/math in medicine/finance.

2018-10-17 12:22:44 UTC  

@hel Yes!

2018-10-17 12:23:01 UTC  

RIP, a minister got MeToo'd and he has resigned. But he says he's going to challenge them false allegations against him.

2018-10-17 12:23:07 UTC  

Yeah, I’m a lifetime overthinker. Took me a long time to change the way I obsessed over things.

2018-10-17 12:23:10 UTC  

What about doing nothing and let yourself sit still?

2018-10-17 12:23:11 UTC  

I could literally sell everything I own and take a bus to Chicago or NYC or LA with no issue. I could pack up within 20 mins and drive anywhere.

2018-10-17 12:23:30 UTC  

Imagine being able to do that with a woman in your life.

2018-10-17 12:24:08 UTC  

@MufflePuff Yes! It finally clicked when I graduated and started working... I used to BINGE learn. I would just learn a ton of stuff but then I switched to "just in time" learning and would write out to-do lists on projects, then as I started building something, I'd learn the pre-req knowledge required to do it.

2018-10-17 12:24:23 UTC  

@hel I am debating making that my entire weekend.

2018-10-17 12:24:53 UTC  

@hel I have been listening to this vikings meditation thing that's pretty amazing and I really do value just sitting in nature and chilling.

2018-10-17 12:24:57 UTC  

OH MY GOD

2018-10-17 12:25:05 UTC  

You too?

2018-10-17 12:25:11 UTC  

#KillSlowMode

2018-10-17 12:25:18 UTC  

#SlowModeSucksCock

2018-10-17 12:25:31 UTC  

The one for masculinity or the one for success?

2018-10-17 12:25:32 UTC  

@hel Yes! I forget who recommended it... but it was somewhere here.

2018-10-17 12:25:44 UTC  

I think it's the only one on youtube lol

2018-10-17 12:27:19 UTC  

There's a hypnosis session for 'No More Mr Nice Guy'. But it's a bit longer than your regular guided meditation.

2018-10-17 12:27:28 UTC  

Link?

2018-10-17 12:27:41 UTC  

I'd check that one out. I sometimes fall into nice guy.

2018-10-17 12:28:25 UTC  

It's more of a personal issue but does anyone else struggle viewing women as broken creatures in need of fixing? I was raised by a single mom, with a sister, so I was always the one they turned to to fix stuff and my mom treated me like a husband.

2018-10-17 12:28:31 UTC  

DM

2018-10-17 12:28:42 UTC  

You don't have meme permissions 😦

2018-10-17 12:29:24 UTC  

Same here. But it has truth in it.

2018-10-17 12:29:30 UTC  

Women need men more than men need women.

2018-10-17 12:30:43 UTC  

Well said. Valuable info @hel

2018-10-17 12:30:53 UTC  

Yeah, it makes me turn into a bit of a simp sometimes with my sister/mom and a few times with a girl I was seeing.

2018-10-17 12:31:13 UTC  

The Rational Male states that only mothers love you unconditionally.

2018-10-17 12:31:19 UTC  

Referring to 'zoning' and whatnot

2018-10-17 12:31:19 UTC  

She would always have drama and her world collapsing. EVERY fucking week. I ended it after 6 months but it was fucking insane.

2018-10-17 12:31:29 UTC  

You can still love women, but always keep in mind that they will not love you back the way you want to.

2018-10-17 12:31:44 UTC  

Nobody really loves you unconditionally.