Message from @Reaper

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2018-11-21 06:25:57 UTC  

Why not?

2018-11-21 06:26:47 UTC  

It's hard for them to get over female validation. Well, one thing we can do is to enable them to make male friends.

2018-11-21 06:26:55 UTC  

But the challenge with that is creating male spaces.

2018-11-21 06:27:07 UTC  

Good luck creating that IRL.

2018-11-21 06:27:19 UTC  

I think that self improvement will lead to different priorities.

2018-11-21 06:28:17 UTC  

For you to want to do actually focus in self improvement is that you need to get out of your rut, being in a mental rut, you're not going to want that, you wouldn't see the point of it.

2018-11-21 06:28:19 UTC  
2018-11-21 06:29:05 UTC  

@ColdEmbraceOfDeath thing is to me without self improvement even us mgtow would kind of just be a bunch of whiney bitches

2018-11-21 06:29:54 UTC  

The anger/rage/depression phase are part of the game but mgtow is not mgtow unless you move past them eventually

2018-11-21 06:30:52 UTC  

Justification for what?

2018-11-21 06:31:41 UTC  

The way I see it is do what you want that gives you a sense of purpose or that enables you to be content, more than self improvement by itself.

2018-11-21 06:31:44 UTC  

@KD I think that getting over the need for validation is the most important aspect and I consider it to be a step towards self improvement

2018-11-21 06:32:28 UTC  

Well, primarily it is a response to how things are, male nature, female nature, current social circumstances.

2018-11-21 06:32:48 UTC  

@KD if you do absolutely nothing to improve your life but stop simping for validation you are already winning in my eyes

2018-11-21 06:33:12 UTC  

The topic of the self, improvement and otherwise, is brought up I guess because what are these men to do with their lives if they're not going to get married and the whole picket fence thing?

2018-11-21 06:34:17 UTC  

@KD you are still framing things as a display for others

2018-11-21 06:34:28 UTC  

RIP news got purged.

2018-11-21 06:34:29 UTC  

That's not entirely true KD

2018-11-21 06:34:37 UTC  

sorry, reaper

2018-11-21 06:34:46 UTC  

I don't better myself because I want others to like me

2018-11-21 06:34:50 UTC  

I could care less if anyone even sees my self improvement as improvement, I am the only judge

2018-11-21 06:35:00 UTC  

Well, if you're not healthy in some and realize that you need to work on something, how is that a bad thing?

2018-11-21 06:35:04 UTC  

I better myself because I have goals that I had since I was a child, and I'm moving towards improving them

2018-11-21 06:35:14 UTC  

@KingGiraffasaur agreed me too

2018-11-21 06:35:19 UTC  

achieving them* sorry, it's late where I am, a bit tire

2018-11-21 06:35:19 UTC  

I am underweight and I realize I need to eat better and workout, is that a bad thing?

2018-11-21 06:35:21 UTC  

It's not.

2018-11-21 06:35:44 UTC  

I think the MGTOW channels talk about self improvement to motivate others, no?

2018-11-21 06:35:57 UTC  

I dont think thats the point he was bringing up

2018-11-21 06:36:22 UTC  

@KD I don't talk about my self improvement with others this is an exception because this is a discussion amongst fellow mgtow

2018-11-21 06:36:50 UTC  

Mgtow is often used a vehicle for self-improvement

2018-11-21 06:36:58 UTC  

Oh, yeah I don't really care to speak about it with others

2018-11-21 06:37:12 UTC  

I'm not like "20 more pounds till I bulk to 205"

2018-11-21 06:37:23 UTC  

Well who died and made you king KD?

2018-11-21 06:37:33 UTC  

It's about going your OWN way

2018-11-21 06:37:42 UTC  
2018-11-21 06:37:47 UTC  

if that includes self improvement then what's the issue?

2018-11-21 06:38:03 UTC  

If that way includes self-improvement which it tends to do, so be it

2018-11-21 06:38:03 UTC  

no you're injecting your opinion as fact

2018-11-21 06:38:12 UTC  

We aren't

2018-11-21 06:38:18 UTC  

Okay hold up