Even if it ends y'alls relationship...

Dont be obliged to continue due to time invested.. I've done some of my best personal growth following break ups. If the time comes when you realize she's not going to change, dont be afraid to walk away..

On the same front if honoring that oath means something deeply significant to you then forget ahead

Only you can know what the call is

*forge ahead

Agreed

Separating for a time may not be a bad idea if you feel it is worth it

Or if you can't stand being around her

A good compromise between the two extremes

Just don't make any promises about your return, even if you intend to, if you give her that security statement the separation will mean nothing. She must view you as the prize and dread your leaving her as a possibility.

She must find deep within herself a fear of who she has become and what it will do so motivating that she compels herself to change

And even if she says she will change you cannot return to be her oak again until she has actually completed the change on a significant level

She will say anything to retain you as a blanket of comfort and stability even if it means she hates herself for it

Bodark going in on the psychological warfare. Big impressed

And when she asks what you'll be doing with your dick when separated don't tell her, even if you intend on remaining fidelous that dread must exist

But if you choose not to remain faithful (which, as my faith would dictate I don't advise, you took an oath before God) then be man enough to handle those consequences

Anonymously send a letter containing the N word to her new address every once in a while to break her spirit. She needs obstacles to overcome.

Hahahaha

If my wife wasn't showing signs of improvement I'd be separated as fuck.

So I'm not hypothesizing anything here that I haven't gone over for myself or wouldn't be willing to do.

But only you can decide if that's the right course.

This is all much easier done before you have kids so keep that in mind

And I will go over to her house and try to seduce her. If she falters on her faithfulness to you, I will deny her and hit her with the N word. No matter the course of action you take, one way or another, she's getting hit with the N word...it's the only way

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This was great on so many levels

Great job @Bodark Actual

Hahaha

My marriage ain't perfect

Neither is mine

But it doesn't have to be

I was in here the other night bitching about how I really didn't want to fuck my wife cuz she isn't attractive the way I want but hey

She get fat?

She done did

Bro mine gained 30lbs too

Meanwhile I'm in the gym 3x a week and on the ice at hockey practice and games 3x a week too

But I have taken full control of what she eats

So it'll change

They all get comfortable and quit trying smh

Same. I built my own home gym. Lift about 4x a week and swim regularly

Fucking ay

I'm focusing on cardio godhood

Hockey

My wife has been in a master's degree program and working full time, so I haven't really been too concerned with her weight gain. She is out of school February so I'm hoping she takes the initiative to get back to that tight bod she had before

Hockey=oof. I cant even imagine