Message from @slvr_neo
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Exactly, she's never had to rely on herself to survive.
Have you tried calling her the N word?
Hahaha
I can only be serious for so long lol short bursts of mental clarity then back to insanity lol
@slvr_neo its needed lol
If you're filling every need of hers all the time you're not doing you all the time
And she doesn't learn to fulfill her own needs
Correct
It is not your job to fill all her needs either
@Bodark Actual @slvr_neo
Makes me wonder if I am filling those tho. I dont feel neglectful by any means
@Bodark Actual oh I know
There's a girl out there how will drain your dick with her throat 4x a week minimum and still do her on the regular
And I'm that girl bro..
Hahahaha
>the truth hurts me
Lol
Bahahaha fuck, I had to
What will help both of you in the long term is if she learns how to be her own person
You will have to let her struggle with this
She needs to struggle
Even if it ends y'alls relationship...
Dont be obliged to continue due to time invested.. I've done some of my best personal growth following break ups. If the time comes when you realize she's not going to change, dont be afraid to walk away..
On the same front if honoring that oath means something deeply significant to you then forget ahead
Only you can know what the call is
*forge ahead
Agreed
Separating for a time may not be a bad idea if you feel it is worth it
Or if you can't stand being around her
A good compromise between the two extremes
Just don't make any promises about your return, even if you intend to, if you give her that security statement the separation will mean nothing. She must view you as the prize and dread your leaving her as a possibility.
She must find deep within herself a fear of who she has become and what it will do so motivating that she compels herself to change
And even if she says she will change you cannot return to be her oak again until she has actually completed the change on a significant level
She will say anything to retain you as a blanket of comfort and stability even if it means she hates herself for it
Bodark going in on the psychological warfare. Big impressed
And when she asks what you'll be doing with your dick when separated don't tell her, even if you intend on remaining fidelous that dread must exist
But if you choose not to remain faithful (which, as my faith would dictate I don't advise, you took an oath before God) then be man enough to handle those consequences
Anonymously send a letter containing the N word to her new address every once in a while to break her spirit. She needs obstacles to overcome.
Hahahaha
If my wife wasn't showing signs of improvement I'd be separated as fuck.
So I'm not hypothesizing anything here that I haven't gone over for myself or wouldn't be willing to do.
But only you can decide if that's the right course.
This is all much easier done before you have kids so keep that in mind
And I will go over to her house and try to seduce her. If she falters on her faithfulness to you, I will deny her and hit her with the N word. No matter the course of action you take, one way or another, she's getting hit with the N word...it's the only way