Message from @slvr_neo

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2020-01-31 02:23:51 UTC  

All good points yes

2020-01-31 02:24:19 UTC  

None of that Matters if she's a bitch and a half to deal with and you're not interested in smashing

2020-01-31 02:24:24 UTC  

But fuck it still makes me nervous to have kids with the disconnect on philosophy

2020-01-31 02:24:31 UTC  

And will power

2020-01-31 02:24:55 UTC  

Fair on the smash part too

2020-01-31 02:26:19 UTC  

>neo typing

Hit enter occasionally so I'm not reading a large block text lol

2020-01-31 02:26:34 UTC  

She does those things to appease you when she senses she's pushed you to the edge. Hence the roller coaster. She's right back at the status quote after a short intermission.

2020-01-31 02:27:08 UTC  

@slvr_neo correct as fuck

2020-01-31 02:27:53 UTC  

Kids...oof.... different philosophies on a fundamental level would eat you alive because you'll want to pass on your wisdom to your children..

2020-01-31 02:28:15 UTC  

But her playing the victim will make you seem like the bad guy in the kids eyes

2020-01-31 02:30:51 UTC  

And unfortunately they will pick up on those traits from her as well, as children tend to cling to their mothers

2020-01-31 02:31:03 UTC  

Right

2020-01-31 02:31:40 UTC  

All things to consider

2020-01-31 02:33:01 UTC  

@slvr_neo would those philosophies be able to be changed?

2020-01-31 02:35:13 UTC  

Not if they are deep set for a long period of time. It would require something drastic. Like her environment requiring her to rely on herself, and no one else. Again, it's been her survival tactic

2020-01-31 02:37:02 UTC  

🤔

2020-01-31 02:37:07 UTC  

I'm trackin

2020-01-31 02:38:13 UTC  

You survive from strength from within, and networking with people who share those qualities. She survives by piggy backing off those types of people by playing off their compassion.

2020-01-31 02:38:27 UTC  

That's why I've been telling you to just do you rn Mac

2020-01-31 02:38:33 UTC  

It'll force her into that

2020-01-31 02:38:37 UTC  

She's never had to try another tactic

2020-01-31 02:39:29 UTC  

Been doin me buddy.... maybe I've been slippin?

@slvr_neo yeah, you're probably right on that.

2020-01-31 02:39:42 UTC  

Riddle me this, has she ever lived alone for an extended period of time?

2020-01-31 02:40:07 UTC  

@slvr_neo no.

Been with her since grade 10

2020-01-31 02:40:38 UTC  

@slvr_neo only bf she ever had.

I've had several ex gfs.

2020-01-31 02:40:56 UTC  

And before you she was with gaurdians?

2020-01-31 02:41:03 UTC  
2020-01-31 02:41:36 UTC  

Then she's been in a constant state of dependence her entire life. Independence is a skill she never has had to learn

2020-01-31 02:42:00 UTC  

@slvr_neo hmm.... yeah. Fair

2020-01-31 02:42:12 UTC  

Emotional independence is very important

2020-01-31 02:42:26 UTC  

And you've been the bread winner?

2020-01-31 02:42:48 UTC  

Fuck yeah

2020-01-31 02:43:16 UTC  

Her Bill's are phone, and .....medical debt.....and..... credit card🤔

2020-01-31 02:43:48 UTC  

Exactly, she's never had to rely on herself to survive.

2020-01-31 02:44:07 UTC  

Have you tried calling her the N word?

2020-01-31 02:44:34 UTC  

Hahaha

2020-01-31 02:45:21 UTC  

I can only be serious for so long lol short bursts of mental clarity then back to insanity lol

2020-01-31 02:45:33 UTC  

@slvr_neo its needed lol

2020-01-31 02:46:12 UTC  

If you're filling every need of hers all the time you're not doing you all the time

2020-01-31 02:46:35 UTC  

And she doesn't learn to fulfill her own needs

2020-01-31 02:47:52 UTC  

Correct