Message from @thedarkness05

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2019-09-09 22:39:27 UTC  

no

2019-09-10 02:07:09 UTC  

I'm definetely determined to talk to the girl I like

2019-09-10 02:07:13 UTC  

Problem

2019-09-10 02:07:39 UTC  

She's always close to her friends, and thats a bump

2019-09-10 02:07:51 UTC  

Bump a line of confidence

2019-09-10 02:14:08 UTC  

What do you mean?

2019-09-10 02:14:13 UTC  

I mean

2019-09-10 02:14:23 UTC  

She's usually with her friends

2019-09-10 02:15:49 UTC  

So you probably wanna go up chad as fuck to ward off the thots and then talk to her normal.

2019-09-10 02:30:50 UTC  

Looks like I don't have another choice

2019-09-10 02:30:51 UTC  

Feck

2019-09-10 17:46:33 UTC  

Guys I have a problem

What's up man?

2019-09-10 17:48:41 UTC  

So I am an adrenaline junkie, I used to do a lot of bullshit nonsense and real dangerous actions to make myself feel super alive for a bit

Now I work from.home and have a business and shit so I don't have time to do that

But it's super stressful, which wouldn't be an issue except for how I cope with it

I don't do drugs or get drunk a lot or anything, I don't step out on my wife or nothing

But when I feel really stressed and need that dopamine magic I turn to porn and it's not good

2019-09-10 17:49:30 UTC  

Last night I had sex with my wife and like, I just couldn't finish and that's never happened before and I'm 99999% because I watch way too much of the shit

tbh, porn us one of the worst things imo. it's bad for the sex life, even worse for the psyche of a man. It takes a toll bro Trust me

As dor the adrenaline junkie thing, mad respect

2019-09-10 17:51:38 UTC  

I am experiencing this. Totally feel it

2019-09-10 17:52:35 UTC  

Short is right, its no good. But I doubt most of us could part with it. I'd suggest finding a balance, maybe talking with your wife about it? Idk, I'm pretty open with my girlfriend and we watch it together sometimes.

2019-09-10 17:53:17 UTC  

She watches it too so it's not an issue but I'm at like 3x a day ish like 10minutes at a time if I start getting bored or anxious

2019-09-10 17:54:07 UTC  

Ok, so maybe find a positive habbit to replace it. Like pushups or putting in work on a heavy bag

Exercise helps like a motherfucker, good shit to get that burn

I'm a Fatboy, but I'm doing good at working through it

Already lost 152lbs these past few

I used to be skinny and athletic, but for some reason I became a slob in high school, and a bit after. now I been busting ass to get my shit.

2019-09-10 17:56:44 UTC  

Replacement is what needs to happen

2019-09-10 17:57:01 UTC  

I need something to replace my dopamine needs

that's a tough one bro.

2019-09-10 17:59:28 UTC  

I know your pain bro. Yes the failure to eject was because if the ferocity of meat beating

2019-09-10 17:59:44 UTC  

1 we are at war. Stop letting the low hanging fruit of the enemy tempt you.

2019-09-10 18:00:01 UTC  

Knowing that place the time and energy elsewhere

2019-09-10 18:00:20 UTC  

Absolutely

2019-09-10 18:15:52 UTC  

I never have this issue I watched alot of porn when I was stationed away from my woman, but beating my meat is nothing compared to beating up the wife's meat

2019-09-10 18:24:26 UTC  

Wife has PCOS so sex isn't at regular intervals, unfortunately

2019-09-10 18:24:57 UTC  

So it's hard to avoid porn when I gotta wait 2 weeks at a time cuz she's really sore from ovaries n shit

2019-09-10 18:33:32 UTC  

Not trying to make excuses tho

2019-09-10 19:21:34 UTC  

I mean that's understandable

2019-09-10 19:45:41 UTC  

Man yesterday was shit. Showed up to the range 400 left at 2100

2019-09-11 16:24:25 UTC  

One of the many reasons I got out

2019-09-11 18:27:35 UTC  

Listen chief smoke some dank whenever you want to jerk off. It certainly ain’t a bad habit and it’ll help ur dopamine needs and give you some other minor health benefits but idk where you live so idk if you can