Message from @North /K/arolina

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2019-12-25 03:50:39 UTC  

It is better to have someone who is not like you. Some similar interests, hobbies and stuff are great. We both like weeb shit. She likes Batman shit. We both play pokemon and we both love the mountains and fishing/hunting/farm stuff. But she is very different from me. I tried being with people who were like me, but I was never really happy. I was constantly chasing happiness. When I made the decision to forsake all others and join with my wife, I found fulfillment and joy. I’m not chasing emotional happiness anymore because my wife is a solid rock upon which I can trust my heart to stand on.

2019-12-25 03:54:14 UTC  

Honestly, I was depressed for a short period after I told Melissa that I was falling in love with Kat. I cut coms with Melissa and it felt like I had just lost a golden ticket to the chocolate factory I’d been longing to see for years (das metaphor). Afterwards though... I got over Melissa. I can look back and see that I wouldn’t have been as happy as I am now.

2019-12-25 03:54:58 UTC  

Similar situation karolina.

2019-12-25 03:58:13 UTC  

in 2012 when my gf at the time was cheating on me while we went to different colleges I downed a bunch of pills and nyquil in a suicide attempt. I woke up on my bathroom floor covered in pill filled puke. For years after, i thought I'd never get over her. She was the girl I had plans to marry and even had an engagement ring in my possession to give her before I found out. I am so fucking glad I woke up, because even though I was miserable for years to come, now I am much better off and am happy again. Shit takes time, and attempting to end it while shit is bad is a fucking TERRIBLE idea. If you do, that's the end of it. You'll never even have the chance to get better

2019-12-25 04:00:06 UTC  

@xringarcher1440 good thing you didnt get picked up by the hospital system. Involuntary admit to a psych facility means no more gun rights.

2019-12-25 04:00:21 UTC  

It's shitty and good that a bunch of us have those kind of stories

2019-12-25 04:01:28 UTC  

I'm telling you. Good men naturally attract those needing help. That doesnt make them not good men, it just means theres merit to those here. Lots of experience here.

2019-12-25 04:01:49 UTC  

The truth is this: No lasting relationship is easy and temptation will always come. It’s pretty much inevitable.
You have to make good decisions and they can be painful. That’s a big part of maturing.
Another principle of maturity is doing what is right by others. Screwing over your s/o is wrong, especially if it’s because of some other woman.

2019-12-25 04:02:56 UTC  

@mcguyver123 yes, that experience was something I keep secret to this day. I never did get professional help, I just dealt with it myself and even though that takes longer, it is indeed possible if you have the willpower

2019-12-25 04:03:16 UTC  

@North /K/arolina this. I've turned down a threesome before. That was self control.

2019-12-25 04:03:31 UTC  

More or less the only reason i haven't gone for help.

2019-12-25 04:03:37 UTC  

I was gunna post some funny Christmas moment in here but y’all going at a serious convey so I’ll wait

2019-12-25 04:03:52 UTC  

@xringarcher1440 stay strong man. Dont screw yourself into being a target to be infringed upon.

2019-12-25 04:04:09 UTC  

@mcguyver123 I did too back in high school. I’m still kicking myself for it 😂

2019-12-25 04:04:26 UTC  

They're over rated

2019-12-25 04:04:38 UTC  

Oh trust me, I am 100% completely fine these days. my super depressed days are way behind me

2019-12-25 04:04:49 UTC  

Two thicc booty volleyball team girls

2019-12-25 04:05:20 UTC  

Still though

2019-12-25 04:06:35 UTC  

I had the girl Im dating now come to my family's christmas party earlier today, shes definitely a trooper lmao

2019-12-25 04:07:11 UTC  

my mom's side is a bunch of fucking white trash wackos

2019-12-25 04:07:37 UTC  

Fun times lol

2019-12-25 04:08:35 UTC  

really want to lock that shit down

2019-12-25 04:08:41 UTC  

shes real cool

2019-12-25 04:08:52 UTC  

I’m still going strong with my gf

2019-12-25 04:09:00 UTC  

Tho boundaries are being tested

2019-12-25 04:09:18 UTC  

She hasn’t said no to anything we’ve tried

2019-12-25 04:09:26 UTC  

I’m going to sleep. I have another Christmas family thing to do tomorrow. Merry Christmas everyone if I don’t get online to say it later.

2019-12-25 04:09:39 UTC  

Merry christmas

2019-12-25 04:09:42 UTC  

@North /K/arolina SAME DUDE LOL

2019-12-25 04:09:50 UTC  

@VI/K/INGinnaTRENCH/K/OAT make good decisions. Do what’s right.

2019-12-25 04:09:54 UTC  

Happy Hanukkah

2019-12-25 04:10:03 UTC  

Shalom

2019-12-25 04:10:09 UTC  

I'm still working on getting this girl to bed, shes too much of a good girl to get right down to it so i have been taking it slow

2019-12-25 04:10:22 UTC  

@One Shot Paddy based. Ropes are also based. Learn your knots

2019-12-25 04:10:40 UTC  

@xringarcher1440 thems usually the best ones.

2019-12-25 04:10:41 UTC  

Take ya time

2019-12-25 04:10:49 UTC  

That’s what I thought ab mine but turns out I was wrong

2019-12-25 04:11:10 UTC  

Wrong in a good way

2019-12-25 04:11:19 UTC  

oh im in no rush, my last gf who ended up cheating on me I was smashing within a month

2019-12-25 04:11:22 UTC  

I mean

2019-12-25 04:11:29 UTC  

I thought she was a goody 2 shoes