Message from @PastPresentFuture
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Hate me*
If they do nothing of value will be lost
You know that
I dunno what typo I just corrected š
I do feel that changing minds is valuable. Maybe thatās where it comes from, I want to express myself clearly and nervous that maybe I will be misunderstood
Things like standing my ground are easy to do without getting angry because I know the difference between being assertive and being angry and being bullied as a kid taught me not to let people push me around. But a battle of the wits is sometimes tricky for me.
Lol
Maybe itās the fear of being misunderstood and the other party spiraling into anger and attacking you? (Not just physical attacks)
Maybe it is fear
Fear is another form of anger. Essentially fear is born from resentment or anger from the past.
Ah I see
I fear being wrong too
thanks for answering man @PastPresentFuture
Fear is of the same nature of anger* the deceiver wants to put any emotion he can inside you to steer you into destruction
Cheers š @Anomie
You can learn from being wrong
Very true
yeah, fear does operate a lot of the same ways as anger. for me, being strong isn't about never feeling fear. it's about what you do with it, or don't. same with anger, or situations that would provoke anger
jay, could you say your fear of being wrong is something to do with your self-image, either how you see yourself or want others to see you?
It has to do with credibility
Strength to me is conquering fear and overcoming anger. Being in control of yourself and knowing yourself
what happens when you're proven wrong?
Like especially in this day and age, you say one āwrongā thing and it can stick to you
I try to be impeccable with words
Ya I hear my Co workers go on prosocialism rants all day. .. I don't day nothing bc I'm paid to design not debate. That fear keeps me getting a check
it sticks to you unless you let it change you. if people see that happening, it's hard for them to stick it to you
Lol
I agree anomie
csquare, better keep certain conversations on your own terms. not where it can fuck with your livelihood
Let it roll off ya
Yes sir
Well I wouldnāt say thatās fear necessarily csquare
Knowing the time and place to act is important
Jesse says thereās a time for everything and heās right
Agreed, Iām the same. Luckily I live in a red(ish) state, and most people here are conservative Christians with good morals. Itās hard to find liberals around here, even at work
Fear of not eating hah
Lol
You are right that you get paid to design not debate, and itās the right thing to do so you can provide for you and the family
Well I live in Louisiana and I work at the one place that stores libs
Haha thatās unfortunate!
I live in Louisiana too lol