Bad women are or were influenced by bad and weak men. Women hate and resent a weak man and that destroys a woman... And the poison spreads.

Later csquare ✌️

ah, ppf, ty for answering. i'm in a skype call. give me 5-10, then i'll read

It is possible to see the anger coming and cast it away. In time the initial feeling of anger won’t even exist. You will have peace

No problem man

You literally have to love the hell out of your wife

Literally love the hell OUT of your wife

Hah that's it

Not sure if I’m coming in this with the correct context but I’d like to join the discussion. I find that I rarely have anger, these days especially. What I do feel is nervous energy, trembling etc, when in certain situations that would usually have sparked anger in the past. I feel nervous because I want to respond appropriately, stand my ground if necessary, but also not respond the way the person or situation expects me to. I usually feel peace afterwards when I successfully skirt anger. But there is an energy there that is powerful in the moment for me. Speaking usually about debate or tough conversations.

Sounds like joy

Like conversations with black children of the lie especially. They have so much hate for me. I try to come from a place of love when I explain what’s wrong in black culture and society. I think maybe I’m nervous that I won’t succeed in defeating the hate they feel

Hate me*

If they do nothing of value will be lost

You know that

I dunno what typo I just corrected 😂

I do feel that changing minds is valuable. Maybe that’s where it comes from, I want to express myself clearly and nervous that maybe I will be misunderstood

Things like standing my ground are easy to do without getting angry because I know the difference between being assertive and being angry and being bullied as a kid taught me not to let people push me around. But a battle of the wits is sometimes tricky for me.

Lol

Maybe it’s the fear of being misunderstood and the other party spiraling into anger and attacking you? (Not just physical attacks)

Maybe it is fear

Fear is another form of anger. Essentially fear is born from resentment or anger from the past.

Ah I see

I fear being wrong too

thanks for answering man @PastPresentFuture

Fear is of the same nature of anger* the deceiver wants to put any emotion he can inside you to steer you into destruction

Cheers 😁 @Anomie

You can learn from being wrong

Very true

yeah, fear does operate a lot of the same ways as anger. for me, being strong isn't about never feeling fear. it's about what you do with it, or don't. same with anger, or situations that would provoke anger

jay, could you say your fear of being wrong is something to do with your self-image, either how you see yourself or want others to see you?

It has to do with credibility

Strength to me is conquering fear and overcoming anger. Being in control of yourself and knowing yourself

what happens when you're proven wrong?

Like especially in this day and age, you say one “wrong” thing and it can stick to you

I try to be impeccable with words

Ya I hear my Co workers go on prosocialism rants all day. .. I don't day nothing bc I'm paid to design not debate. That fear keeps me getting a check

it sticks to you unless you let it change you. if people see that happening, it's hard for them to stick it to you

Lol

I agree anomie

csquare, better keep certain conversations on your own terms. not where it can fuck with your livelihood

Let it roll off ya