Message from @Grossly Incandescent

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2018-08-06 00:43:43 UTC  

Also as a lil girl,i learned some of these things .too

2018-08-06 00:44:40 UTC  

Any tips on bringing up a baby girl in this crazy world?

2018-08-06 01:03:40 UTC  

He just turned 2 last month

2018-08-06 01:05:39 UTC  

Try to teach her all ways of traditional worlds,yet also round out some nicely in how to take care of herself by self defense & also fishin,hunting,an equal balance of both things.

2018-08-06 01:05:44 UTC  
2018-08-06 01:08:39 UTC  

My wife took a WIC breastfeeding class the other day and they said it was ok to smoke and drink while breastfeeding

2018-08-06 01:09:13 UTC  

Made me really mad

2018-08-06 01:09:13 UTC  

@Grossly Incandescent my granddaughter,also from stepson enjoys her girly stuff,but is also learning to enjoy boy things too like trucks,lizards & eventually hopefully they may soon get her into karate or there abouts,she is 5. She loves her pink & princess stuff,but also anything ypu can get your hands on educational wise,book,puzzles,etc too. She is a quick study.

2018-08-06 01:09:41 UTC  

Holy crap! @Grossly IncandescentHell no!!!

2018-08-06 01:10:32 UTC  

Yeah, her and Grandma thinks it’s because they want to give out as little formula as possible through the program

2018-08-06 01:11:05 UTC  

Any nutrition stuff i could do while pregnant was big,my bad was i still smoked at the time but did eventually quite. But i never once drank!!

2018-08-06 01:13:27 UTC  

I remember being nervous & worried about the food,etc i took in while pregnant and whatbi fed her after. I only wish someone had taught me how important breast feeding was,i had nobody to rely on,both mothers were alraedy passed away.

2018-08-06 01:16:41 UTC  

Yes my mother smoked with me & i think drank too,but i never got the chance to ask her for any parenting advice because she passed 6 months after we were married.

2018-08-06 01:17:19 UTC  

And my mother n law passed 3 months prior to daughter being born and she was old school,didnt talk about stuff to me..

2018-08-06 01:18:42 UTC  

That's sadly true,i feel guilty bad because asthma runs in the family on both sides,my brother had it,husband,stepson & daughter have it..

2018-08-06 01:19:03 UTC  

@missliterallywho I remember seeing some news cast from the 70s or 80s with a tobacco exec talkin about smoking causing low birthweight and saying “what mother wouldn’t want a smaller baby?!”

2018-08-06 01:19:29 UTC  

That sounds familiar!

2018-08-06 01:20:33 UTC  

My wife and I both think our baby girl is gonna be a big one

2018-08-06 01:21:11 UTC  

Natural is the plan

2018-08-06 01:21:13 UTC  

Thats rare,my daughter was 6lbs even & I did,both my stepkids were huge though,1 was 10.2,the other 9.7.

2018-08-06 01:21:32 UTC  

Dang

2018-08-06 01:21:48 UTC  

Try to keep it natural if you can I tried.

2018-08-06 01:22:35 UTC  

I saw a woman do a water birth and said it felt great, blew my mind!

2018-08-06 01:23:01 UTC  

Daughter was natural,both stepkids had to be cessarian after hours of trying natural. Same with my stepdaughter too,she had to go cessarian.

2018-08-06 01:23:42 UTC  

Unfortunately i had to have the meds,i had excruciating back labor

2018-08-06 01:24:30 UTC  

That was also prior leading up to years later having spinal surgeries too,so made it worse.

2018-08-06 01:24:47 UTC  

Honestly i don't remember @missliterallywho

2018-08-06 01:25:33 UTC  

She is 21 now,so hopefully down the road i will have more grandkids from her,help carry the line.

2018-08-06 01:25:46 UTC  
2018-08-06 01:27:06 UTC  

Well thats good,bet your starting to get really antsy! Lol

2018-08-06 01:27:20 UTC  

Are you nesting,cleaning like crazy? Lol

2018-08-06 01:30:34 UTC  

Lol ya crunch time indeed!

2018-08-06 01:31:02 UTC  

Ya,your crafting stuff will take a back seat for a couple years.

2018-08-06 01:31:31 UTC  

You better have it ready! Lol😉

2018-08-06 01:33:56 UTC  

I miss that Cali weather. Florida’s been like mid 90s with hellacious humidity lately!

2018-08-06 01:34:05 UTC  

Oh wow,no car seat yet? That was 1st priority i always made sure to get grandkids & daughter. Not easy with bowling ball in 85 heat lol😂

2018-08-06 01:34:49 UTC  

That humidity would kill me,does sometimes in the valley,i hear how bad it is there in Florida,yuck,! Hang in there!

2018-08-06 01:35:57 UTC  

Gonna finish eating dinner,good talk. If you need some other advice later,dm me. You can do this,i have faith in you!!!😁😀❤

2018-08-06 01:42:48 UTC  

Your welcome hon,anytime! @missliterallywho You too! @Grossly Incandescent

2018-08-06 01:43:18 UTC  

Thanks @celticflame !

2018-08-06 01:43:34 UTC  

😊❤