Message from @celticflame

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2018-08-04 00:41:40 UTC  

Yeah I was also raising hogs with FFA at the time so it was slightly ironic.

2018-08-04 00:42:50 UTC  

Sometimes I feel like a good grounding in agriculture is a vital skill for a child, it helps bind generations together through the familiar connection of soil.

2018-08-04 01:30:54 UTC  

When I was really young my grandfather taught me all of these things and then I enjoyed them with my father later in life. I was raised hunting fishing farming playing sports and doing motor sports. So now I am passing along the same things to my son.

2018-08-06 00:42:16 UTC  

Something I've noticed with my grandson,my stepson's son,is he has been with mama & daddy too much,so trying to get him exposed to other family & friends on regular basis helped,also stepping up with dads getting involved with more in his presence is helping him not be a mama's boy. Getting a whole way to expose him to more guy things is helping in addition to the normal nourishing from mama,a decent balance of both sexes. Also in the future helping to teach him various fishing,hunting,target practice,sports,etc will help round him out.

2018-08-06 00:43:43 UTC  

Also as a lil girl,i learned some of these things .too

2018-08-06 00:44:40 UTC  

Any tips on bringing up a baby girl in this crazy world?

2018-08-06 01:03:40 UTC  

He just turned 2 last month

2018-08-06 01:05:39 UTC  

Try to teach her all ways of traditional worlds,yet also round out some nicely in how to take care of herself by self defense & also fishin,hunting,an equal balance of both things.

2018-08-06 01:05:44 UTC  
2018-08-06 01:08:39 UTC  

My wife took a WIC breastfeeding class the other day and they said it was ok to smoke and drink while breastfeeding

2018-08-06 01:09:13 UTC  

Made me really mad

2018-08-06 01:09:13 UTC  

@Grossly Incandescent my granddaughter,also from stepson enjoys her girly stuff,but is also learning to enjoy boy things too like trucks,lizards & eventually hopefully they may soon get her into karate or there abouts,she is 5. She loves her pink & princess stuff,but also anything ypu can get your hands on educational wise,book,puzzles,etc too. She is a quick study.

2018-08-06 01:09:41 UTC  

Holy crap! @Grossly IncandescentHell no!!!

2018-08-06 01:10:32 UTC  

Yeah, her and Grandma thinks it’s because they want to give out as little formula as possible through the program

2018-08-06 01:11:05 UTC  

Any nutrition stuff i could do while pregnant was big,my bad was i still smoked at the time but did eventually quite. But i never once drank!!

2018-08-06 01:13:27 UTC  

I remember being nervous & worried about the food,etc i took in while pregnant and whatbi fed her after. I only wish someone had taught me how important breast feeding was,i had nobody to rely on,both mothers were alraedy passed away.

2018-08-06 01:16:41 UTC  

Yes my mother smoked with me & i think drank too,but i never got the chance to ask her for any parenting advice because she passed 6 months after we were married.

2018-08-06 01:17:19 UTC  

And my mother n law passed 3 months prior to daughter being born and she was old school,didnt talk about stuff to me..

2018-08-06 01:18:42 UTC  

That's sadly true,i feel guilty bad because asthma runs in the family on both sides,my brother had it,husband,stepson & daughter have it..

2018-08-06 01:19:03 UTC  

@missliterallywho I remember seeing some news cast from the 70s or 80s with a tobacco exec talkin about smoking causing low birthweight and saying “what mother wouldn’t want a smaller baby?!”

2018-08-06 01:19:29 UTC  

That sounds familiar!

2018-08-06 01:20:33 UTC  

My wife and I both think our baby girl is gonna be a big one

2018-08-06 01:21:11 UTC  

Natural is the plan

2018-08-06 01:21:13 UTC  

Thats rare,my daughter was 6lbs even & I did,both my stepkids were huge though,1 was 10.2,the other 9.7.

2018-08-06 01:21:32 UTC  

Dang

2018-08-06 01:21:48 UTC  

Try to keep it natural if you can I tried.

2018-08-06 01:22:35 UTC  

I saw a woman do a water birth and said it felt great, blew my mind!

2018-08-06 01:23:01 UTC  

Daughter was natural,both stepkids had to be cessarian after hours of trying natural. Same with my stepdaughter too,she had to go cessarian.

2018-08-06 01:23:42 UTC  

Unfortunately i had to have the meds,i had excruciating back labor

2018-08-06 01:24:30 UTC  

That was also prior leading up to years later having spinal surgeries too,so made it worse.

2018-08-06 01:24:47 UTC  

Honestly i don't remember @missliterallywho

2018-08-06 01:25:33 UTC  

She is 21 now,so hopefully down the road i will have more grandkids from her,help carry the line.

2018-08-06 01:25:46 UTC  
2018-08-06 01:27:06 UTC  

Well thats good,bet your starting to get really antsy! Lol

2018-08-06 01:27:20 UTC  

Are you nesting,cleaning like crazy? Lol

2018-08-06 01:30:34 UTC  

Lol ya crunch time indeed!

2018-08-06 01:31:02 UTC  

Ya,your crafting stuff will take a back seat for a couple years.

2018-08-06 01:31:31 UTC  

You better have it ready! Lol😉

2018-08-06 01:33:56 UTC  

I miss that Cali weather. Florida’s been like mid 90s with hellacious humidity lately!

2018-08-06 01:34:05 UTC  

Oh wow,no car seat yet? That was 1st priority i always made sure to get grandkids & daughter. Not easy with bowling ball in 85 heat lol😂

2018-08-06 01:34:49 UTC  

That humidity would kill me,does sometimes in the valley,i hear how bad it is there in Florida,yuck,! Hang in there!