Message from @ThisIsChris

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2018-04-19 01:44:03 UTC  

@Pat-MA haha I think you will not miss drinking very much

2018-04-19 01:45:26 UTC  

@ThisIsChris Haha, I have been cutting down a lot. That mainly applies to her because we get into arguments when she drinks

2018-04-19 01:52:55 UTC  

@Pat-MA Things don't have to be perfect all the time, at those times I suggest thinking of times she puts up with or does things for you

2018-04-19 01:53:35 UTC  

Thanks man. True stuff

2018-04-19 01:55:13 UTC  

@Pat-MA Pleasure to put in my two cents

2018-04-19 02:21:57 UTC  

Only advice I'll probably ever give here, take it or leave it... It's cliché, but: when you meet the one that truly makes you want to be a better man, don't let her go. You'll feel it. It won't feel like she's out of your league. You'll just want to be the best you can be for her because she deserves it. That's the one.

2018-04-19 02:34:59 UTC  

tfw u had that but were too young and stupid to realize it

2018-04-19 02:49:26 UTC  

Why what happened with your relationship?

2018-04-19 16:56:21 UTC  

Living together before marriage is not trad.

2018-04-19 20:14:37 UTC  

I never understood what's wrong with just living together

2018-04-19 20:14:55 UTC  

Isn't sex before marriage supposed to be the degenerate part?

2018-04-19 21:29:18 UTC  

Unfortunately in the world we live in it is easier to cohabitate in many cases. As for the sex before marraige, it is difficult to get married in your early 20s due to financial reasons/ finding a woman who is mature enough

2018-04-19 21:32:12 UTC  

Both living together and having sex outside of marriage are disastrous for relationships.
Living together causes scandal. It let's other couples know that cohabitation is appropriate. Not only that, but it is a slight to any good woman's reputation.

2018-04-20 00:25:43 UTC  

False

2018-04-20 00:26:01 UTC  

Not in todays world

2018-04-20 00:28:42 UTC  

I have to agree. In a time before such rampant degeneracy was the norm, it would go without saying that living together before marriage would be a bad move. Unfortunately, because so many people engage in antisocial behaviour, I would think it would be advisable to spend at least a year together under the same roof before you get married. Maybe move in together after your engagement, but I don't think it's wise to never cohabitate before it's too late. Living together gives you an opportunity to see what someone is really like. Unfortunately, you really can do that, unless you spend most of your free time together

2018-04-20 00:28:43 UTC  

How can you advance a relationship if marraige is not possible at the moment?

2018-04-20 00:29:39 UTC  

Unfortunately getting married is not as easy as it used to be

2018-04-20 00:30:48 UTC  

@John O - Just because something is the norm does not make it moral.

2018-04-20 00:31:46 UTC  

@SamanthaM that's not the point I was making. I was making the point that in order to find out if someone is really who they say they are, you have to spend a majority of your free time with them, and that is really only possible if you live together

2018-04-20 00:32:27 UTC  

And with the high divorce rate it is good to be 100% sure you can sustain a marraige.