Message from @Pat-MA
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Does she downplay it that it’s not a big deal?
Honestly just tell her she’s being a degenerate
be nice about it tho
Yeah she doesnt think theres anything wrong with it
that’s an issue then
But it was the life she grew up with
does she think she can be a proper mother and wife by abusing substances ?
Does she prioritize marriage and motherhood?
Well if i bring that up she says she wont do it if we had kids
start there and everything else will come into place
We all have to outgrow childish things.
Yeah I just want her to outgrow it
How old she is?
26
Oh
Wtfffff
lol
Nope
like I’m 20 and I never did any of that stuff and I’ve always been geared towards marriage and motherhood
I mean I guess everyone is different
You need to get her to grow up lol
Me? Ehhh kinda but not really
I wasn’t instilled with these ideals
Her mom kicked her out of the house when she was 16 so that doesnt help
Had to go live w her dad
That’s rough but hopefully those situations make you stronger and make you want to be better for your future family
that’s my opinion tho
Agreed ^
I’m tryna have 15 kids by 26
Nice
If you show yourself as a strong enough role model with your clean living then she will see how dumb she is being by contrast.
Hopefully
Thats what I’m trying
Lots of people do not grow up in this world we live in. I see it in a lot of my friends too. Im 27
Like all druggies fundamentally are trying to cope with something. If you can show her that she doesn't have to cope with the situation she used to be in then she doesn't have to smoke anymore.
Yeah Ive known that
do you really love her?
or are you just with her because you’ve been with her for so long?
I do love her
okay then you gotta put your foot down and let her know your standards and expectations for her behavior