Message from @The Huwhyte Ulf - VA

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2018-07-17 16:35:37 UTC  

lol I can imagine this tip going wrong

2018-07-17 16:39:28 UTC  

No you’re right about the 2:1 thing it’s not for relationships which are serious. There shouldn’t be such a barrier as message length to a healthy relationship

2018-07-17 16:50:51 UTC  

@Jacob read about body language. That can make a huge difference.

2018-07-17 16:55:43 UTC  

How to win friends and influence people @Jacob

2018-07-17 17:03:05 UTC  

@Zyzz funny thing about that book, the first edition had a chapter specifically for married couples, it was later removed as the book became to be known better as a resource for business-types

2018-07-17 17:04:33 UTC  

But you can find that chapter online

2018-07-17 17:08:35 UTC  

Is it good @ThisIsChris i read the rest of the book a few years ago. It was good but a lot of it was common sense. My grandpa actually recommended. It. He said it helped him when he moved to Cali from an isolated farm.

2018-07-17 18:07:45 UTC  

@Zyzz Oh ya I was already planning on buying that

2018-07-27 04:58:22 UTC  

I have a girlfriend!

2018-07-27 04:59:31 UTC  

Gratz bro

2018-07-27 04:59:48 UTC  

Awesome! Now turn this on and let things happen naturally. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZW9SiFzR8s

2018-07-27 05:06:20 UTC  

She's in Australia so I'm not sure that's going to work, but I'm going to visit her in December so I'll keep this in mind.

2018-07-27 06:10:19 UTC  

@Der Seeteufel - SD ayyyyyyyyyy nice

2018-07-27 06:11:19 UTC  

Did you send her a letter?

"Do you like like me?

Yes
No"

2018-07-27 10:10:09 UTC  
2018-07-27 10:50:33 UTC  

@Der Seeteufel - SD how did it happen? Did you ask her out?

2018-07-27 11:56:10 UTC  

We met through my church. I saw her over the summer but she wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I kept emailing her every so often though and just the other day she started emailing me back and then we started video calling one another. I asked to go and see her and she said yes and so I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes.

2018-07-27 12:51:11 UTC  

When are you traveling to the Southern Hemisphere?

2018-07-27 12:57:53 UTC  

Probably December around Christmas time.

2018-07-27 12:58:16 UTC  

We haven't fully worked out the details yet.

2018-07-27 13:17:00 UTC  

That will be nice considering that is their spring/summer.

2018-07-27 13:17:55 UTC  

Australia is a great place to visit. So much to see. What area will you be traveling to while there?

2018-07-27 13:22:34 UTC  

South Australia, North of Adelaide.

2018-07-27 13:29:38 UTC  

It's a family farm sort of in the middle of nowhere.

2018-07-27 13:30:02 UTC  

A lot like where I live.

2018-07-27 13:30:54 UTC  

Awesome. I never got to travel that far south when I was there. I have heard the southern coast has great coastline also.

2018-07-28 05:45:05 UTC  

I need that nervous man emoji on this server. I just got off the phone with her father. I hope I made a good impression.

2018-07-28 05:46:05 UTC  

You did.

2018-07-28 05:48:26 UTC  

simply talking to her dad is a great sign. She wouldn't do it if she wasn't serious

2018-07-28 05:50:30 UTC  

I was worried I was moving things along too quickly but then she goes and pulls introducing me to her father the day after I ask her to be my girlfriend. I think we might be made for each other. We're constantly keeping each other on our toes.

2018-07-28 05:52:05 UTC  

Yeah that's serious

2018-07-28 05:53:13 UTC  

Right now the biggest struggle in my relationship is getting to know her dad better

2018-07-28 05:54:11 UTC  

I plan on asking for his blessing soon

2018-07-28 05:55:48 UTC  

Congratulations man that's great. I always love seeing IE guys settling down and getting ready to raise the next generation of Identitarians.

2018-07-28 05:57:06 UTC  

Thanks and something I can tell you from experience is that if a girl is introducing you to her parents she's serious about you.

2018-07-28 06:06:48 UTC  

That's a relief. She is very quiet and modest so it's sometimes hard to pin down how she feels. I did notice a distinct shift in her messages when she started emailing me again though. I think her being in America for the first time and meeting so many people was overwhelming for her. She was homeschooled on her families small farm in South Australia so she doesn't have very much social experience.

2018-07-28 06:10:13 UTC  

Now that she is back home she seems much more confident.

2018-07-28 10:44:15 UTC  

How much do you love her accent @Der Seeteufel - SD

2018-07-28 11:25:14 UTC  

@Zyzz it's the only reason I want to marry her. 😍

2018-07-28 11:26:00 UTC  

Classic

2018-07-28 11:27:21 UTC  

Just kidding, but it is very sexy. I really like how she says my name. Something about pronouncing German names with an Australian accent is amazing.