Message from @TV
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I know I'm a bit late this too so... There are 14yrs btwn my hubby & I, I got married at 21,but had my daughter at 23. I know myself & Hubby are both "Fertile Myrtles", so it goes without saying that the 2 older Stepkids are Fertile but my step daughter has a harder time delivering. My own daughter I believe will be like me,so has also done the Norplant until she's ready some years later.
I think asking a woman outright about her Fertility would likely freak most out. So like above as mentioned..,its always good to ask what the mom,sisters, aunts have been like as far as getting pregnant right away,etc.
I thought this was pretty interesting. I'm surprised SD still has this law. I hope it stays.
Dueling should be brought back
Seconded
I hope it grows to other states!
I don't think that is going to happen. Honestly this law might not even survive this case.
This is the best book on relationships I’ve ever read.
https://www.audible.com/pd/The-5-Love-Languages-for-Men-Audiobook/B00SI7P9QC
I have the generic 5 languages book. I will check out the for men version. thanks for the recommend
Yeah I've taken two marriage courses both mentioned 5 love languages
What does it mean when a girl asks "what are your stats?"
Asking for a friend
I sincerely hope that's not in reference to body count, ugh.
I think she wants to know your strength, dexterity, constitution, intelligence, wisdom, and charisma. Check your character sheet.
Height, weight, bench press, squat, hair eye color? AncestryDNA results?
Send her all your lift stats. Deadlift, squat, bench, pull ups. She’ll laugh and then clarify what she meant.
Or if you’re a car guy, send your horsepower, cylinder count, brake piston count, wheelbase, curb weight, etc.
She was just a random girl on the bus. I was just wondering what she meant
If you’re ever confused by what a girl is asking (all of us are, and frequently), play it off with a joke and then she’ll either joke along or clarify what she was more seriously seeking.
You're right about that. It's good advice. I used to just send emojis to girls when I didn't know how to respond. That or a "..."
Dang, I was thinking measurements...height, weight, uh.......height.
Interesting hypothesis. Probably correct in the broad general sense, but the reverse of course happens in individuals and situations.
Sounds basically right in my experience
Every man’s deepest desire is to have his girl look up to him and trust him
Though it’s not entirely clear what their distinction is between respect and love and I couldn’t make it far enough into the video to find out if they clarify that
@missliterallywho I watched that one thought it was really good and accurate
At what point do you give up on a friend who can't accept your political views?
I personally don't need everyone to agree with me and I'm fine having friends with different beliefs. I'm just wondering what to do when it gets to the point that your views are constantly an issue for them that leads to them getting mad at you. At what point do you just give up on trying to keep them happy?
Sounds like their problem. You have no problem with their beliefs mostly. They have a problem with you
If they get mad enough at you they’ll stop being your friend. If he won’t and he gets some sick pleasure out of being your friend and being mad at you I mean damn....how easy would it be to cut him out, meaning do you have mutual friends or has this been a friendship for a long time
He might be trying to convince you out of your beliefs. Make it clear that’s not gonna happen
I have a question for married guys: how far in advance did you tell your in laws you planned on marrying their daughter?
I actually didn’t tell the in-laws, they only found out after my wife told them I proposed
But in my situation I haven’t exactly been close to them until very recently
@TV I told them the second time I met them.
More precisely I asked the father's permission to propose the second time I met them. Then I proposed to her the third time I met them.
My hubby proposed to me,then asked my dad's permission. That was probably after a handful or so times he met my parents i guess.
What do you girls think about engagement/wedding rings? I'm personally against the whole gem system and would prefer our rings to be identical plain gold bands with a bible verse and our wedding date engraved on the inside.
@Der Seeteufel - SD Rings are quintessentially European (roots in Christianity and Pagan cultures). Only you can know your gal and whether she'll be affected by the inevitable absurd shade she will get from more materialistic women.