Message from Gaius Mucius Scaevola in MacGuyver - Skills & Academics #i-am-dating


2018-04-19 02:14:55 UTC  

its rare for a girl to ever follow up with someone about when they are free for a date.. it is best to ask "so when are you free?"

2018-04-19 02:15:34 UTC  

if she can't do brunch after church one of these weeks soon should i ask her again once the semester is over?

2018-04-19 02:16:16 UTC  

@Gaius Mucius Scaevola I would play it by ear, meet her at Church, ask how things are going

2018-04-19 02:16:33 UTC  

if she's light on details then move on

2018-04-19 02:16:50 UTC  

she hasn't initiated texting in a while

2018-04-19 02:16:55 UTC  

so i guess i'll just play it by ear

2018-04-19 02:16:59 UTC  

tfw no gf until then

2018-04-19 02:17:21 UTC  

Don't worry man you are wicked young. And as you get older, you will meet more mature girls

2018-04-19 02:17:28 UTC  

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2018-04-19 02:17:32 UTC  

dat fertility window tho

2018-04-19 02:17:38 UTC  

Gaiu

2018-04-19 02:17:54 UTC  

Plenty of time man

2018-04-19 02:18:54 UTC  

@Gaius Mucius Scaevola like @Pat-MA said 18 year olds are really immature and unstable (sorry young guys lol). If I were you I wouldn't bother with a girl younger than 21. Don't worry about fertility window, you have a good while.

2018-04-19 02:19:22 UTC  

feelsbadman

2018-04-19 02:19:24 UTC  

but alright

2018-04-19 02:19:50 UTC  

Yeah man, I read an article about how most girls hit their peak maturity nowadays at age 27

2018-04-19 02:19:59 UTC  

Also, one of the open secrets is this: most girls are trad in some way, it's the natural way

2018-04-19 02:20:51 UTC  

big thing to me is she was born and raised orthodox christian

2018-04-19 02:21:00 UTC  

and orthodox christians are already an intense minority in this country

2018-04-19 02:21:36 UTC  

I agree religion is important. On religion she sounds great, but I think the age thing really is a challenge.

2018-04-19 02:21:49 UTC  

true

2018-04-19 02:21:54 UTC  

i was a fucking retard at 18

2018-04-19 02:22:01 UTC  

i'm still a fucking retard, only slightly less

2018-04-19 02:22:19 UTC  

lol

2018-04-19 02:22:37 UTC  

Yeah I don't want to knock anyone man or woman, i can only imagine what I looked like to other people, but I quickly learned that girls 18-23 are basically pixies

2018-04-19 02:22:48 UTC  

Then around 23 they start to get a little more serious

2018-04-19 02:23:03 UTC  

my personal experience, though I'm sure it's the same the other way around as well

2018-04-19 02:24:10 UTC  

You are definitely right man. Then at 27 they usually take another turn

2018-04-19 02:24:11 UTC  

i was a shithead up until like 2 years ago

2018-04-19 02:26:28 UTC  

I'm a shithead

2018-04-19 02:47:14 UTC  

So i've been texting this girl for a week, then I ask her out on a date and she says she's not looking to date anyone right now. When I asked for her number initially I was perfectly clear I wanted to date her, so why did she text with me for a week acting like she was into me?

2018-04-19 02:47:32 UTC  

Because girls love attention

2018-04-19 02:48:06 UTC  

She could have been texting other guys at the same time

2018-04-19 02:48:20 UTC  

Oof, you are probably right though.

2018-04-19 02:48:46 UTC  

>texting for a week

2018-04-19 02:48:49 UTC  

no no no

2018-04-19 02:48:49 UTC  

Unfortunately it is probably done man. Lots of girls are like that though, on to the next

2018-04-19 02:49:09 UTC  

only use texting to set up a real world meeting

2018-04-19 02:49:54 UTC  

I probably messed up by not asking her out sooner right?

2018-04-19 02:50:05 UTC  

depends

2018-04-19 02:50:10 UTC  

just be aware of momentum