@Der Seeteufel - SD I think this is a widespread thing. People expect to see a vision or feel a voice. I dont' know if it's the media conditioning, or just shitty pastors, but it's a 'missing feeling' I've also dealt with.

@Attrition in the desert Understood. Sorry.

Ok. My advice for courtship is as follows. Step 1. Go to church. Step 2. Meet trad GF. Step 3. Trust God will take care of things. Step 4. At least 7 kids. (I'm going for 8)

I'm not even sure where I'd go to find a trad church. I've met girls through college republicans, but it's fair to say conservative doesn't really describe them in their personal lives. I guess that's to be expected when you're at a college in the northeast

@Der Seeteufel - SD Lofty goals. Good luck though. Always good to have more IE babies

@TMatthews I'm told the go-to are SSPX catholic, Orthodox, and Confessional Lutheran.

@Wood-Ape - OK/MN Also FSSP

SSPX aren’t Catholic

@SamanthaM I don't have any experience with them, I just hear about them on Fatherland and Godcast 😑

@Wood-Ape - OK/MN https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Priestly_Fraternity_of_Saint_Peter

@SamanthaM Thanks, I'll read up on them.

@Wood-Ape - OK/MN. Normal Catholic works too and there are a lot more.

But my recommendation to meet people outside of church is to take night classes

I'm partial, of course, since I met my wife at one

What does Trad mean to you guys?

Barefoot and pregnant

That’s it?

oh and IN THE KITCHEN

I was mostly using it in the memtic sense.

okay shitposts aside

I think you mean “hobbled” and pregnant.

Well, I’m asking seriously.

Trad is an odd word that holds many connotations

At this point: not pozzed, not coalburned, wants kids and willing to take second-in-command when needed is good enough for me.

Although a good husband recognizes when his wife does know more.

What I generally mean when I use "Trad" is: Things that are generally tradition, but not explicitly, good for society essentially.

Sometimes I think a pro-white hippy would suit me more. But they seem even rarer.

No sex before marriage, no race mixing, actually try to be in it for life

I cannot find many “trad” guys either.

I think guys can easily be made trad

So many are leftist dummies.

Interesting

Yeah right @Deleted User Easier said than done.

I would imagine many guys would love to have a women like what I just described

Well, maybe that's a bad thing, cause that could just be him being anything you want, which means he's a bitch.

so idk

Especially considering that this movement is disproportionately male

Men are just as wrapped up in the dominant narratives as women.

@Jacob yeas, but I’m saying I’m a woman and haven’t come across many intelligent, passionate, pro white men.

But the things you guys listed seem totally reasonable. I think you just have to convince a woman to stay at home with the kids. Most women don’t want to work. Not deep down.

I understand life has messed up our heads. At 30+ with little money, I can't expect Aryan wheatfield standards when I was a turd in my 20s. I wouldn't demand virginity, but under four partners and no race mixing though.