Message from @SamanthaM

Discord ID: 454838789131468801


2018-06-08 23:34:57 UTC  

also someone with their career together. as in, they have a job they like and they have a path to advancement

2018-06-08 23:35:22 UTC  

guys need to be financially secure in order to be available for marriage/kids

2018-06-09 00:29:25 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/454804174849441792/20180607_144021.jpg

2018-06-09 00:29:27 UTC  

Come on ladies. Wheat fields are standing by.

2018-06-09 00:39:36 UTC  

I just want to put this out there. I'm currently tied down, but if any IE girls need some dating profile pics I literally have access to thousands of acres of wheat.

2018-06-09 00:41:03 UTC  

It's almost ready too.

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/454807103303843850/20180607_204103.jpg

2018-06-09 00:45:11 UTC  

@micbwilli you're already married right?

2018-06-09 00:46:18 UTC  

No but I'm not looking. I just kinda see post here and check them out. I'm discord obsessive and can't stand unread messages.

2018-06-09 00:46:41 UTC  

I don't even know why I was added to this part of the server.

2018-06-09 00:50:24 UTC  

I'm not a lady bro... 😅

2018-06-09 00:50:52 UTC  

ya'll can still get married

2018-06-09 00:50:53 UTC  

no homo

2018-06-09 00:51:00 UTC  

Oh goyd I'm sorry bro!

2018-06-09 00:51:20 UTC  

No worries. 👌

2018-06-09 00:51:46 UTC  

The puppy avatar threw me off.

2018-06-09 01:07:40 UTC  

Is the new one better?

2018-06-09 01:42:59 UTC  

@micbwilli very unambiguous

2018-06-09 02:24:38 UTC  

@ThisIsChris @Zyzz Thank you for the advice. Yes, it would be nice to have an honest talk about career and finances. Not asking for a lot, but maybe it would be nice to know any prospective children could have a decent future.
Just looking for someone who would be "in charge," if that makes any sense?

2018-06-09 02:27:25 UTC  

@SamanthaM Of course, sounds like what I would describe as "a stable family oriented person", seems reasonable to me.

2018-06-09 02:27:27 UTC  

@SamanthaM Yeah i think the only responsible thing to do is to make sure your career/finances are in order prior to bringing children into this world. Nearly all women want a man who is "manly" as in they are masculine. A part of masculinity is the willingness and ability to lead or take charge

2018-06-09 02:46:57 UTC  

Ok, so honest question, and this is probably asking too much of someone, but I have the responsibility of taking over a family business. Ideally, it would be great if there was someone was interested in both kids, and a small business. Is that too high a criteria to look for?

2018-06-09 02:49:23 UTC  

@SamanthaM I don't think so, that's effectively what my wife and I are going for. Actually in my view I think it is quite normal as (professional and stable) people get older that they strongly consider having their own small business, and only don't do so if they have a great opportunity elsewhere.

2018-06-09 02:50:05 UTC  

i wouldnt force him into it, no. with that said he should be able to understand the opportunity you have and be willing to let you do what you need to do

2018-06-09 02:50:35 UTC  

he may want to pursue another career path and thats fine

2018-06-09 02:54:34 UTC  

@SamanthaM in reflecting on what @Zyzz says, I do think it's better to focus on finding a life partner apart from finding a business partner. If those line up it's a coincidence. There's other ways to keep your spouse close during the work day without them having to co-manage a business with you.

2018-06-09 02:54:54 UTC  

@SamanthaM would you be mobile with your business or would you need to stay where youre at? is it that he didnt want to live where you live?

2018-06-09 02:59:25 UTC  

@Zyzz Good question. Theoretically, I could move the business anywhere in the continental U.S., but the vast majority of our clients are in the Mid-Atlantic. Also, there are some family circumstances that prevent a major move.

2018-06-09 03:00:56 UTC  

@ThisIsChris What you and your wife have is definitely ideal. But you're right, it would be unfair to expect someone to make a career switch.

2018-06-09 03:07:23 UTC  

@SamanthaM my grandmother used to say "god closes one door and opens another". i would try to keep an eye out for the next one

2018-06-10 01:59:51 UTC  

@Gaius Mucius Scaevola it's all about reading their body langauge man. If you get eye contact or smiling that is very good. If she positions herself near you or so you can clearly see her that is good too. And if she touches you in any way that is a dead giveaway.

2018-06-13 18:05:28 UTC  

"How to get out of the friend zone" ^^

2018-06-13 18:43:45 UTC  

The best way to get out of the friend zone is to not get in it in the first place. i.e. first impressions are important

2018-06-13 18:43:58 UTC  

they set the pace of the rest of the interactions

2018-06-13 19:11:33 UTC  

I have a little theory about the friend zone... your personality worked, your attractiveness didn’t... therefore, you are friend zoned.

2018-06-13 19:12:09 UTC  

In harsher words, stop being unattractive

2018-06-13 19:12:55 UTC  

Haha

2018-06-13 19:36:36 UTC  

yep ^

2018-06-13 19:57:07 UTC  

Or just being too much of a friend. Being too available, and too open, etc

2018-06-13 20:02:06 UTC  

Nothing makes them want you more than apathy

2018-06-13 20:02:16 UTC  

Or at least controlled apathy