Message from @Myndrian
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I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 19. Originally she thought I was too old for her but I was able to convince her otherwise. Ultimately I think what matters most is relationship dynamics. What are your goals, what are her goals, and how do those things mesh. I think in most cases for people in our movement that tends to older men with younger girlfriends and wives.
Church is where the good girls are.
hhhmmm
its complicated imo
Even within the same denomination, different parishes have vastly different cultures. All the liberals in my town go to one church, moderates go to another, and the most traditional go to another one.
So just try and search out for more traditional communities then?
And even if there are some feminists at church, the odds of finding a traditionalist are far better than outside of church.
I agree with the chances. You are right in that there are higher chances when going to church. Sorry to nitpick
I just meant like basically its a minefield almost everyone. Less of a minefield in church though
everywhere*
Church youth groups = A+ dating market
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A lot of churches push the diversity stuff really hard
There was this really Christian blonde girl I worked with who posted this creepy video about how we're all the same and united in Jesus
A lot of time I see them posting pictures from their missions to Africa or Latin America
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ok np
@Jacob a church that doesn’t preach the pozz is a bit of a diamond in the ruff, but they exist. A local IE friend brought me to a very traditional Catholic Church and I’m loving it.
Ya I'm trying to keep a pulse on Mormonism but I think they have tendencies to go global and adopt globalist strategies to increase membership
A Catholic friend who did research in the various Christian denominations said that Mormonism teaches that black skin is a punishment from God. That was interesting to hear.
SSPX has an whole traditional Catholic community across the nation. They do singles week somewhere in Oklahoma, I believe, because the trad Catholic communities are so small it's hard to meet other true Catholics.😉
@Tanner - SC that is an old teaching, but yes they said the reason black people were cursed with dark skin was because they were "neutral" in God's war against Satan. I do not believe that is part of their canon any longer
W..w..what are you trying to say Tinder?
Lololol
That's what happens when you use Sonic the Hedghog themed pickup lines
"just a blue hedgehog chasing Tails"
Gotta go fast
@RevStench Of all the churches I've been to, the Orthodox community has the least interest in preaching to non-whites. Seems like people come to this community because they are interested in genuine tradition, not just being 20 years behind Unitarians
@Attrition in the desert I've been getting a lot of those, too
Tinder? You could be gay and be more likely to get a girlfriend than by using Tinder
Also if you're in college, there's no reason to be using disreputable dating apps, let alone tinder. Just go to the quad, student activities center, library, gym, book club, tutoring center, academic clubs, or whatever and just talk to girls.
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THIS!!!
@ThisIsChris I think what a lot of people have an issue with is how exactly to just go up to someone in public and just start having a conversation
@Jacob "Hey there I'm Jacob, nice to meet you, do you come here often/some weather today huh/you look nice and I'd like to get to know you."
"what do you think of this lecture/book/game/new building/day"
"yeah I chose to come here today because I'm completely new to it and wanted to learn more. I would like to continue this conversation sometime would you like to meet for coffee [at some time during daylight in the next few days] at [some place in public]?"
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Unless you're really good looking and outgoing, a lot of those will come across as creepy.
Certain dating apps are fine because then you know she's looking for a relationship too. Hookup apps like tinder should be avoided like the plague though.