Message from @Lathan_TX

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2017-07-01 19:02:52 UTC  

Sometimes I lie because I'm insecure. That's not man behavior

2017-07-01 19:03:05 UTC  

I'm selfish

2017-07-01 19:03:36 UTC  

And I still have a overwhelming desire to see the world

2017-07-01 19:04:37 UTC  

A real man is okay with being absolutely vulnerable

2017-07-01 19:04:45 UTC  

I'm not okay with it yet.

2017-07-01 19:05:12 UTC  

What kind of father would I be?

2017-07-01 19:05:39 UTC  

I feel like having babies now would be cheating my children

2017-07-01 19:05:59 UTC  

Maybe it's Jewish programming.

2017-07-01 19:06:09 UTC  

Idk

2017-07-01 19:06:59 UTC  

How many kids y'all got?

2017-07-01 19:12:08 UTC  

You'll never be ready. My advice is become materalistically ready to provide fully for the child, and then when it's here the emotions follow.

I didn't have any kind of emotional attachment to my kid until I first held her. The more fathers I speak to, the more that seems to be common.

2017-07-01 19:12:11 UTC  

One kid here

2017-07-01 19:13:24 UTC  

Once I did hold her though, it all clicked. It felt like my entire life had built to that one moment and everything else paled in comparison.

Like some latent programming kicked in.

2017-07-01 19:19:54 UTC  

I see

2017-07-01 19:21:15 UTC  

I just want to be a great role model for my children.

2017-07-01 19:23:13 UTC  

And I do not want to be dreaming for a trip to Europe when my kids are 2.

2017-07-01 19:24:03 UTC  

The girl is wealthy

2017-07-01 19:25:40 UTC  

Be fit
Be learned
Be handy
Be comedic
Learn to be wise

Don't go to Europe until it's been ethnically bleached.

2017-07-01 19:27:45 UTC  

Don't be degenerate. Don't use alcohol in front of them or drugs at all. Alcohol should be rare to moderate if at all.

Don't forget to give your woman just as much attention as before if not more. They DO often get jealous of fathers becoming nearly obsessive over their new children.

Don't get angry in front of them unless it's anger being used to defend them.

2017-07-01 19:27:53 UTC  

All the advice I have

2017-07-01 19:28:16 UTC  

Thank you @Riefen

2017-07-01 19:28:35 UTC  

If she has a C section do not look

2017-07-01 19:28:44 UTC  

It is the same as field dressing a deer

2017-07-01 19:28:51 UTC  

Ewwww... You know about the voices in your head

2017-07-01 19:29:00 UTC  

We all have that voice

2017-07-01 19:29:03 UTC  

You won't be able to look at her the same if you see that

2017-07-01 19:29:06 UTC  

Telling us to choose wrong

2017-07-01 19:29:11 UTC  

I won't look

2017-07-01 19:30:13 UTC  

You mean the voice that essentially shows you a glimpse of the future where if you're standing on a ledge it shows you falling from the ledge?

2017-07-01 19:30:13 UTC  

You know the voice. The one that tells you to sleep in

2017-07-01 19:30:32 UTC  

Ohhh kek I thought you meant that survival instinct that says "dude be careful"

2017-07-01 19:31:38 UTC  

Yeah man. That voice you're talking about is in everybody. It sucks, and overcoming it is so crucial. You can't teach your children discipline if you aren't disciplined yourself.

2017-07-01 19:31:41 UTC  

It's a very evil voice

2017-07-01 19:31:55 UTC  

Most of us think that voice is our voice

2017-07-01 19:32:12 UTC  

That's the one I need to conquer to become a man

2017-07-01 19:32:50 UTC  

That voice that tells you it's okay to look at women and think dirty thoughts

2017-07-01 19:33:54 UTC  

Or the voice saying I can't do it

2017-07-01 19:34:04 UTC  

Telling me to be afraid

2017-07-01 19:35:20 UTC  

That's not me. We all have the same voice in our heads. Jesus did too. What made him so godly was his ability to completely ignore it

2017-07-01 19:38:14 UTC  

When the flush of a newborn sun fell first on Eden's green and gold, Our father Adam sat under the Tree and scratched with a stick in the mold; And the first rude sketch that the world had seen was joy to his mighty heart, Till the Devil whispered behind the leaves: "It's pretty, but is it Art?"

2017-07-01 19:38:49 UTC  

Yes!