Message from @Anti-rednibba

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2017-10-07 23:44:07 UTC  

heh hardest

2017-10-07 23:44:11 UTC  

Here's a place to start.

2017-10-07 23:44:13 UTC  

oh you\

2017-10-07 23:44:15 UTC  

To learn, I mean.

2017-10-07 23:44:18 UTC  

Thanks

2017-10-07 23:44:42 UTC  

Otherwise, use google scholar to find some more scientific studies. Also, type in "porn addiction" on youtube and you'll find a plethora of speakers.

2017-10-07 23:44:48 UTC  

And don't mention it.

2017-10-07 23:46:06 UTC  

The greatest advice I've received on porn addiction is this : You need to treat porn as sorcerer's spell. Imagine that there is an evil warlock that is trying to curse you with a hex spell that weakens you every time you get the urge to watch porn. Doing this will make the battle feel less like a battle against yourself, and more like a battle against something evil. It's been working so far with me.

2017-10-07 23:47:18 UTC  

I know the golden one is a bit of a meme for most people, but this video has helped me a lot, personally.

2017-10-07 23:47:26 UTC  

i had a friend who had that angel as his fb profile kek

2017-10-07 23:47:32 UTC  

And fixing your dopamine levels will be required if you ever want to fix your depression.

2017-10-07 23:47:57 UTC  

Another way to help your dopamine levels is through working out.

2017-10-07 23:48:07 UTC  

I started to lift weights two years ago and I've been happier about it ever since.

2017-10-07 23:48:24 UTC  

doesn't exercise help with testosterone too

2017-10-07 23:48:30 UTC  

I believe so.

2017-10-07 23:48:38 UTC  

It helps with self confidence

2017-10-07 23:48:44 UTC  

which will in turn help your social life

2017-10-07 23:48:57 UTC  

And plus you end up healthier, which is obviously good

2017-10-07 23:49:04 UTC  

As for this, a big part of my depression was this girl I met my freshmen year, she was a year older than me, and to make things short I fell in love with her and all that yadayadayada, but I fell in love with her because, as I was depressed then too, she was really the only time I had experienced geniuine social interaction, I felt that she *wanted* to talk to me, and that she *enjoyed* my company, and I thought she really loved me too, I could actually feel it. We were a thing for about a year and a half, and it was great really, but to sum things up, I met these guys, and they seemed cool I just didn't know them that well, and this one guy named josh even offered to "be like brothers" ( if you're not from the south that might seem foreign to you) and then, after getting back from a trip, I learned her and 3 of those dudes, including josh, had fucked. I was too shaken to say or do anything, I had no idea how to feel or how to process it. My mind just went blank. Then, through a set of circumstances that are too long to type, I ended up watching her and josh make out and grind on eachother before I left.

2017-10-07 23:49:15 UTC  

Wow that's a shitload of text

2017-10-07 23:49:17 UTC  

yeah start doing the little things first, like cutting out certain addictions and lifting weights. Infact I think the best place to start is taking cold showers, it takes little effort and feel really good. That may then lead you to other imporvements in your life

2017-10-07 23:50:03 UTC  

i had a crush get with a mutual friend names josh too wtf.

2017-10-07 23:50:15 UTC  

it sounds like you're surrounded with people you can't connect with.

2017-10-07 23:50:28 UTC  

I'm at university and my circle of friends are all liberals, so I have a similar problem.

2017-10-07 23:50:47 UTC  

As difficult as it sounds, you have to detach yourself from ideology though at times.

2017-10-07 23:50:57 UTC  

yeah that really sucks man, when youre in that type of situation you really just need to change your environment

2017-10-07 23:51:23 UTC  

That's why I recrommend finding out about clubs. I have a lot of liberal college friends too, but I have some new more conservative traditional type folks I've gone camping and hiking with. college seriously helps find new people with some variety

2017-10-07 23:51:54 UTC  

That experience above really did traumatized me, the first person that I felt made me feel like I was normal, for the first time in my life, had betrayed me, I'm a senior now, so of course it would be natural for me to be over such a thing by now. But being that she made me feel like she was the only chance to happiness I had, it really did tear me aprt

2017-10-07 23:52:14 UTC  

And I will definitely look into getting more politically active in order to socialize

2017-10-07 23:52:49 UTC  

Highschool generally sucks, but don't let it bring you down.

2017-10-07 23:53:10 UTC  

I hated it and I had quite a lot of friends back then.

2017-10-07 23:53:34 UTC  

University is where you'll meet the friends you'll know forever, really.

2017-10-07 23:53:52 UTC  

Just as a testiment, I had a serious relationship with a chick a few years back and it ended in a sad way. But as intense and hopeless it seems, even after a while, it seriously gets better and eventually you don't think about it. High School can be a bad time, but it definitley isn't all of social life for here on out

2017-10-07 23:53:58 UTC  

You just need to be willing to make the first move, to take the initial step towards finding them.

2017-10-07 23:54:06 UTC  

From what I've seen universities tend to be very leftist, so I'm not sure how true that statement would be for a white nationalist fascist like me

2017-10-07 23:54:36 UTC  

Like I said, at some points, you just need to detach yourself from ideology and enjoy the other aspects of people.

2017-10-07 23:54:55 UTC  

young girls can be really self centered, dont let her control how you feel

2017-10-07 23:54:56 UTC  

You might have a tough time finding people who think EXACTLY like you, but you will meet people who are closer to you on the spectrum and you'll find them leagues more sociable than the usual group

2017-10-07 23:55:00 UTC  

one mistake a lot of people in our circles make is that they look for women who have similar ideologies.