Message from @Anti-rednibba

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2017-10-07 23:41:50 UTC  

I have some studies on this.

2017-10-07 23:41:53 UTC  

If you're interested.

2017-10-07 23:41:59 UTC  

Should I cut out masturbating altogether?

2017-10-07 23:41:59 UTC  

but it's pretty depression to read

2017-10-07 23:42:04 UTC  

I don't think so.

2017-10-07 23:42:05 UTC  

And yes please

2017-10-07 23:42:10 UTC  

I'm actually interested in the studies too, not to hijack the convo or anythig

2017-10-07 23:42:19 UTC  

Just do it less, and do it without anything else than your imigation to drive you.

2017-10-07 23:42:23 UTC  

once a week is what I do and it's kept me pretty sane

2017-10-07 23:42:37 UTC  

Did any of you do it and see improvement?

2017-10-07 23:42:45 UTC  

I'm currently breaking out of it.

2017-10-07 23:42:47 UTC  

Absolutley can confirm

2017-10-07 23:42:55 UTC  

It's really, *really* hard to break out of porn addiction, believe me.

2017-10-07 23:43:49 UTC  

I'll give it my hardest shot

2017-10-07 23:44:05 UTC  

Another thing

2017-10-07 23:44:07 UTC  

heh hardest

2017-10-07 23:44:11 UTC  

Here's a place to start.

2017-10-07 23:44:13 UTC  

oh you\

2017-10-07 23:44:15 UTC  

To learn, I mean.

2017-10-07 23:44:18 UTC  

Thanks

2017-10-07 23:44:42 UTC  

Otherwise, use google scholar to find some more scientific studies. Also, type in "porn addiction" on youtube and you'll find a plethora of speakers.

2017-10-07 23:44:48 UTC  

And don't mention it.

2017-10-07 23:46:06 UTC  

The greatest advice I've received on porn addiction is this : You need to treat porn as sorcerer's spell. Imagine that there is an evil warlock that is trying to curse you with a hex spell that weakens you every time you get the urge to watch porn. Doing this will make the battle feel less like a battle against yourself, and more like a battle against something evil. It's been working so far with me.

2017-10-07 23:47:18 UTC  

I know the golden one is a bit of a meme for most people, but this video has helped me a lot, personally.

2017-10-07 23:47:26 UTC  

i had a friend who had that angel as his fb profile kek

2017-10-07 23:47:32 UTC  

And fixing your dopamine levels will be required if you ever want to fix your depression.

2017-10-07 23:47:57 UTC  

Another way to help your dopamine levels is through working out.

2017-10-07 23:48:07 UTC  

I started to lift weights two years ago and I've been happier about it ever since.

2017-10-07 23:48:24 UTC  

doesn't exercise help with testosterone too

2017-10-07 23:48:30 UTC  

I believe so.

2017-10-07 23:48:38 UTC  

It helps with self confidence

2017-10-07 23:48:44 UTC  

which will in turn help your social life

2017-10-07 23:48:57 UTC  

And plus you end up healthier, which is obviously good

2017-10-07 23:49:04 UTC  

As for this, a big part of my depression was this girl I met my freshmen year, she was a year older than me, and to make things short I fell in love with her and all that yadayadayada, but I fell in love with her because, as I was depressed then too, she was really the only time I had experienced geniuine social interaction, I felt that she *wanted* to talk to me, and that she *enjoyed* my company, and I thought she really loved me too, I could actually feel it. We were a thing for about a year and a half, and it was great really, but to sum things up, I met these guys, and they seemed cool I just didn't know them that well, and this one guy named josh even offered to "be like brothers" ( if you're not from the south that might seem foreign to you) and then, after getting back from a trip, I learned her and 3 of those dudes, including josh, had fucked. I was too shaken to say or do anything, I had no idea how to feel or how to process it. My mind just went blank. Then, through a set of circumstances that are too long to type, I ended up watching her and josh make out and grind on eachother before I left.

2017-10-07 23:49:15 UTC  

Wow that's a shitload of text

2017-10-07 23:49:17 UTC  

yeah start doing the little things first, like cutting out certain addictions and lifting weights. Infact I think the best place to start is taking cold showers, it takes little effort and feel really good. That may then lead you to other imporvements in your life

2017-10-07 23:50:03 UTC  

i had a crush get with a mutual friend names josh too wtf.

2017-10-07 23:50:15 UTC  

it sounds like you're surrounded with people you can't connect with.

2017-10-07 23:50:28 UTC  

I'm at university and my circle of friends are all liberals, so I have a similar problem.