Like I said, at some points, you just need to detach yourself from ideology and enjoy the other aspects of people.

young girls can be really self centered, dont let her control how you feel

You might have a tough time finding people who think EXACTLY like you, but you will meet people who are closer to you on the spectrum and you'll find them leagues more sociable than the usual group

one mistake a lot of people in our circles make is that they look for women who have similar ideologies.

Which is almost impossible to do since women are inclined to be left leaning anyway.

Yeah lesson 1 is don't rely on women for happiness. They just aren't capable in general of holding the same mindset and values

One of my close friends offline is a commie actually. You can be friends with people you deeply disagree with.

Oh yeah definitely I would have no problem with that

If anything it's better to have a handful of people who disagree so you don't just fill your space as an echo chamber

yeah

Right, that's how I see it too.

you got it

Does anyone here have kids?

I have a nephew and niece, but no kids of my own.

I've also considered he idea that having children would exponentially make my life much more fulfilling and generally happier

Still going through university

It most likely would, but you should be ready before that

Ah, has your brother/sister ever told you it's made their life for the better?

economically and emotionally, I mean.

it's my sister. And yeah, she has.

And definitely

She 's infinitely happier now.

Children and building a family can give you a purpose but don't do it for the sake of it. Make sure you are ready in life in both stability and financially. So maybe wait some more years lol

Did you notice a change in her?

Well she became much more mature and stronger.

Little things wouldn't get to her anymore.

Stronger, mentally, I mean

not physically

She has her own business now and is making a decent amount of money from it

And she never went to university, so it's pretty inspiring

kids can reshape lives for the better in some cases

Why do you want to go to law school Anti?

My brother went to art college, dropped out and is now working at a lazer game place, and he lives alone.

I think he's depressed, but it's hard to tell with some people.

Right now, I think the main thing I need to focus on is lifting and expanding my mind

Oh I want to go to law school because if like to maybe get into politics

And if not that, it'd be pretty 🅱️angin to be an attorney

Yeah.

get dat dosh

I also just had an idea. The military is also a good way to find like-minded individuals.

Not just for the money tho