Message from @Argument of Perigee

Discord ID: 485518619799977987


2018-09-01 18:07:24 UTC  

...and all I meant by that was that I don't fault widows for their situation, though I think it ultimately behooves them to remarry.

2018-09-01 18:08:00 UTC  

So “abandon wedding vows” but widows can remarry? Don’t think I get your morals here.

2018-09-01 18:08:23 UTC  

"Till death do us part." Death nullifies wedding vows.

2018-09-01 18:08:42 UTC  

Lol

2018-09-01 18:10:37 UTC  

...after an understandable and respectable period of mourning, obviously.

2018-09-01 18:12:56 UTC  

You know in white culture back in the day, the widow wasn’t supposed to get remarried. It was frowned upon. Granted, so was divorce, but to stick so strongly to wedding vows I have to assume you’re religious. To have such polarizing views is puzzling.

2018-09-01 18:17:14 UTC  

Widows frequently married the brothers of their husbands, it was customary to take care of your brother's wife if he met an untimely end and you were single

2018-09-01 18:17:34 UTC  

Depends on the culture (and religion), and obviously some cases are understandable (i.e. instances of abuse, wherein the abusive spouse is recalcitrant), but I think that the overwhelming impetus should be directed toward preserving the integrity of the marriage, and although I do have my own metaphysical views, this particular position is mostly rooted in sociology, rather than any kind of religious imperative.

2018-09-01 18:17:44 UTC  
2018-09-01 18:20:25 UTC  

So forcing people to stay in a marriage miserable is better for society than having them separate?

2018-09-01 18:20:57 UTC  

...and I'm not saying that, if you're divorced, I condemn you as a piece of crap, and refuse to associate with you. Obviously, our generation is one that's just now starting to find its legs, and blindly feeling out a new path. I'm sure as hell far from any ideal, but ideals have their place nonetheless...

2018-09-01 18:24:27 UTC  

@Infineon What I'm saying is that a man and a woman who enter into marriage together, and who then find themselves feeling "miserable," should see as it as their primary priority to get to the root of what it is about each other or themselves that's making them feel that way, and try to address it, showing a willingness to swallow their pride and leave their comfort zones in attempting to do so, rather than just throwing in the towel.

2018-09-01 18:25:45 UTC  

That’s naive.

2018-09-01 18:26:52 UTC  

If we, as identitarians, and as White people, can't even find it in ourselves to form one, single functional and rewarding relationship in our lives (and the most meaningful and consequential, for that matter), then how can we possibly expect to be able to form relationships in the kinds of numbers, and of the the kind of depth required to effect the degree of change necessary to save our people?

2018-09-01 18:27:24 UTC  

*cringe*

2018-09-01 18:27:45 UTC  

The word is "humility."

2018-09-01 18:31:18 UTC  

*cringe*

2018-09-01 18:32:41 UTC  

Mind you, just for the sake of full disclosure, I've never been married, though I am intimately familiar with the kind of life that results from a single-parent household. That said, it seems that I've hit a nerve...

2018-09-01 18:33:09 UTC  

**snap**

2018-09-01 18:33:16 UTC  

Ignore them

2018-09-01 18:37:39 UTC  

We have channels concerning relationships, parenting, and being single in the Skills & Academics server should anyone like to have a focus area to further discuss.

2018-09-01 18:38:23 UTC  

@Argument of Perigee Very subtle, lol

2018-09-01 18:38:25 UTC  

Fair enough.

2018-09-01 18:41:25 UTC  

Jaooooooo

2018-09-01 18:41:56 UTC  

The fuck is good Ie

2018-09-01 18:42:07 UTC  

Fresh out the penitentiary

2018-09-01 18:43:37 UTC  

You’re still on parole.

2018-09-01 18:44:31 UTC  

Damn do I gotta check in with that cat every month and pee in a cup?

2018-09-01 18:44:59 UTC  

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

2018-09-01 18:45:03 UTC  

You need an outlet.

2018-09-01 20:02:26 UTC  

@Infineon do you have a iPhone charger I can borrow?

2018-09-01 20:03:18 UTC  

It’s a 30pin.

2018-09-01 20:04:27 UTC  

Ok

2018-09-01 20:16:53 UTC  

https://youtu.be/sattAz9k9UM SO WHAT HAVE I BEEN SAYING THIS ENTIRE TIME??? Lol 😂

2018-09-01 20:49:43 UTC  

Whew. Tried to join another identitarian discord and immediately was told “you dye you’re hair, you’re a thot”, and then was called a trad thot like 20 times

2018-09-01 20:50:00 UTC  

Thank you guys for actually having a vetting process ffs

2018-09-01 20:50:56 UTC  

Why are you telling everyone about your hair routine right off the bat?

2018-09-01 20:52:20 UTC  

... it’s in my profile picture lol

2018-09-01 20:53:01 UTC  

I didn’t just join the server and start talking about my hair. I joined the server, just said hi, and then was immediately greeted with that

2018-09-01 20:53:11 UTC  

Oh, gotya

2018-09-01 20:53:15 UTC  

.. yeah