@Logan same

I just love this girl and want to treat her the right right way, and I don't know if I can bring a good faith proposal to her father without a guaranteed way to support his baby girl.

@Sam Southern - TN being poor and newly married is great fun unironically. Best way to be poor. We also didn't have a wedding so maybe don't listen to me

@Sam Southern - TN the fact that you worry so much about this now is proof enough to me that you’re already doing right by this girl

That sounds great honestly @Logan

Something romantic about it in both senses of the word

Since* I was 12 rather, not until I was 12. Sounding a little weird there

@Ald it's like Glass Castle but without all the bad stuff

@Grossly Incandescent thank you, that actually means a lot and helps me organize my thoughts better

@Sam Southern - TN be honest with her and her family about your desire to marry her and your fears in regards to this and I’m sure you’ll receive their blessing

literally the only non IE person/non blood family that I care about are her and her family. I'm just terrified that her dad is going to withhold his blessing

I'm not catholic, but I'm positive that is a BIG negative

would you convert?

naw, we've already talked about how the wedding would be with a mixture of catholic and protestant rituals. I would be wearing my IE pin, my section would be Confederate regalia, etc.

Wew

we've actually had pretty in depth conversation on raising the children non-Catholic and non-Protestant so that it's up to them which side they choose

@NateDahl76 I am a vocal Southern Nationalist around her family. they're blue dogs from the 50's

This is a good problem to have. All the girls I talk to are atheists (nothing necessarily wrong with that) and crazy. Don't know where to meet good girls

Good stuff

@Ald Church? lol

@Sam Southern - TN On the bright side, it is not uncommon for engineering students to have full-time positions secured early on in their senior year. In only a year's time you may be much closer to your desired position

It would feel dishonest. Is the church girl notion real, anyway? @JC

Yeah depends on where you go and what you are looking for

@Ald I mean I'd say it is, just based on the odds. However, if you aren't a believer I wouldn't recommend it.

I would say unless you are actually religious or desire to be it would be bad

I'm pagan. Closest thing is Wiccan girls and that's uh, yeah

😔

Not Good TM

Yeah that's a whole barrel of monkeys

I mean a girl's mind could be changed, but I wouldn't want to take a Christian girl away from her heritage and atheists are hard to convince of anything

Sorry didn't mean to crowd out your serious convo @Sam Southern - TN

no worries, I got the answers that I needed bro

sometimes, you just need the older brothers in the org to help out a younger guy just trying to figure shit out

much love for all the help I received tonight fellas ❤

Real 10:33tarian hours, who up?

What up @Reinhard Wolff

Watching a documentary on the CIA, how are you?

MK Ultra?

Chillin.

Which doc?

Is it called "Hate in America"