i talk to them alot in my job since they lifeguards n shit

their personallities are so bland

like fking starbucks,21 savage, raves

Yeah because they’re initially whatever bland generic personality floats until they learn more about you and mirror whatever it is you want them to be

Her life will be a bad Pink Floyd coverband loop concert in a couple of years.

Nobody no more will put up with her shit.

Ever.

29 with a kid, I think she’s already reached the end of people putting up with her nonsense because she’s he owner of a wet hole

Incredibly good news then.

A little less for the kid.

Damaged for life.

Poor lil thing, never had a chance

Indeed.

Got fucked by Chad and he ran

Or not

It says 7 year relationship

when you sit at the bar how do you guys react when girls come over to you and start talking to you?

my suggestion is: ask her for a drink, either she leaves or you get a free drink

and it isn't really offensive

Either way it's win-win, right?!

yes

I would just politely chat but be non-commital about it. I NEVER offer to buy them a drink and as you might surmise more often than not they would buy ME a drink to keep the conversation going. It's been a few years though since I was merely 'on break' from my marriage and not fully divorced.

yeah it is good praxis

I don't be at the bar

as long as you never give or commit any resources, and are only in a public space with lots of people you are safe

Neither does @Xychotic

Eh...I'm with Nig on this one these days though. I don't bother drinking in public anymore. Even in a bar/public setting you might get #metooed...as they've shown in the past, 'Proof? What proof?!'

ive never drank

what am i missing

you miss headache the next morning

@rart well last time I was at a bar was prior to #metoo

You're not missing on anything. I'm simply in the habit of drinking two or three glasses of wine a week...

I'm drinking a breakfast beer right now

Or maybe three beers at the end of a work day

BREAKFAST BEER?! LOL!!!

why people drink so much

Speaking of which it's time for my breakfast coffee

is dat vodka

@rart I'm bavarian, it is cultural :3

@haku. Most likely for the buzz/drunken sensation. Also some people genuinely like the taste. Domestics (US) taste like someone ran hot water down a 300 pound man's sweaty ass crack and added some urine to the runoff though so YMMV

ah I don't drink three beer for breakfast, one or two, and only on days off