Message from @Virgil

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2018-12-03 21:25:51 UTC  

Nooo!! I must get Santa hat

2018-12-03 21:26:23 UTC  

My apartment has a thing against them and he was put in for resource guarding

2018-12-03 21:26:37 UTC  

Basically he doesn't get along with others well

2018-12-03 21:26:56 UTC  

He was super buff tho

2018-12-03 21:27:35 UTC  

@William Russell Ya, that's the thing, it's hard to define. Dunbar defined it informally as the number of people you'd feel comfortable joining uninvited at a bar, but I'd be a bit unconfirmed doing that to *anyone*.

I would say anyone you talk to regularly. Like, they could contact you right now and you wouldn't think anything of it.

2018-12-03 21:28:09 UTC  

@StevePines -WA Should have gotten a German Shepherd because blacks don't like them

2018-12-03 21:28:18 UTC  

@Jacob I’ve got a solid 10 twitter followers so there’s that 😎

2018-12-03 21:28:55 UTC  

cool kid here

2018-12-03 21:30:15 UTC  

@Alex Kolchak - NY didnt follow me back

2018-12-03 21:30:25 UTC  

@Jacob I would say 20-30 based on the bar definition

2018-12-03 21:30:30 UTC  

Why would I have a santa hat when I don't celebrate Christmas?☪

2018-12-03 21:30:32 UTC  

One anthropologist proposes a Dunbar number of 290. Seems insane to me that you could even maintain passive relations with that many people.

2018-12-03 21:30:38 UTC  

I’ve worked for the public for nearly a decade tho

2018-12-03 21:32:02 UTC  

They had a German Shepherd but it was in a pair with another dog

2018-12-03 21:32:20 UTC  

I counted 14 stable social relations and I already find it difficult to maintain contact with everyone. No idea how I would possibly keep track of 150 people. @Asatru Artist - MD

2018-12-03 21:32:44 UTC  

@StevePines -WA like you had to buy both at a time?

2018-12-03 21:33:01 UTC  

I have well over 150+ I would engage in conversation with if I seen them in public tho. Just pleasantries or what not

2018-12-03 21:33:51 UTC  

Yeah

2018-12-03 21:33:57 UTC  

Apparently in some European countries they find them weird

2018-12-03 21:34:05 UTC  
2018-12-03 21:34:17 UTC  

@Asatru Artist - MD Celebrating Christmas is blasphemy in my religion

2018-12-03 21:34:36 UTC  

@William Russell In Slavic countries blatantly fake small talk is super weird

2018-12-03 21:34:47 UTC  

Yea that’s what I’ve heard about Germany

2018-12-03 21:34:51 UTC  

@Asatru Artist - MD Not quite.....✡

2018-12-03 21:34:53 UTC  

They were codependent, they've lived with each other their whole lives and the shelter didn't want to separate them @Jacob

2018-12-03 21:35:01 UTC  

Germans disliking small talk? whack and unheard of

2018-12-03 21:35:12 UTC  
2018-12-03 21:35:13 UTC  

What do you do when you make eye contact with someone you are acquainted with but don’t know well?

2018-12-03 21:35:16 UTC  

@StevePines -WA huh interesting

2018-12-03 21:35:36 UTC  

@William Russell up nod if know them better than average, down nod if less than average

2018-12-03 21:35:41 UTC  

@William Russell I either just ignore them, or I find something legitimate to talk about

2018-12-03 21:36:01 UTC  

I’m the king of small talk lol I wonder if people find it obnoxious

2018-12-03 21:36:18 UTC  

To be honest I generally ignore people who I don't know well

2018-12-03 21:36:27 UTC  

deep south anglo pleasantries require an intense dedication to small talk

2018-12-03 21:36:49 UTC  

I always make sure to initiate it I feel like I’m more likable they associate me with being friendly and kind of they don’t know me that well

2018-12-03 21:37:00 UTC  

That’s what it is @Sam Southern - TN

2018-12-03 21:37:06 UTC  

Yankees under appreciate it

2018-12-03 21:37:19 UTC  

eastern europeans + yankees

2018-12-03 21:37:30 UTC  

basically all non NW euro descendants lol

2018-12-03 21:37:43 UTC  

@William Russell Depends what kind of small talk. I find it uncomfortable if it's really blatantly fake.

2018-12-03 21:37:44 UTC  

Dixie Anglo