Message from @Matthew
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Your uncle.
Yeah
Had a job, Not an alcoholic, not a wife beater, let her be a homemaker
No issue with the kids, etc
That was kind of weirdly phrased, and just hope she disappears. Sucks for the kids but if she fights it then he's going to lose.
Oh if she fights, he loses
No matter what circumstance, it's the law at this point
Plus she didn't hold a job, so that's easy money
Even if she doesn't want the kids she can extort him for money.
Uncle gets along with his two sisters, not a misogynist, nor a push-over because he works in the trades
oh well
What's the wife's family like? Cunt like that doesn't fall far from the tree.
Uneducated, in the boonies
Might be a blessing, if they were educated your uncle would be bled dry by now.
See, this is why I'm so reluctant to do the whole marriage thing: I want to be in this relationship because I want to be here, not because I'll get my life ruined legally if I decide it isn't working
Kind if threw that out the window when her parents bought you a house...
There's a formal way of ending things
My sister is cohabiting with her boyfriend
similar situation but instead of my parents footing the downpayerment, she did it herself
because her bf is a broke motherfucker
Oh, it's in her name. I "Rent" it from her at 0 percent markup and get a renter's credit on my taxes at the end of the year.
Don't bother me none.
Should be fine
Are you on the coasts or in the midwest/south etc?
I mean, you like her well enough to live with her.
I think I could afford a down payment in the middle of the US, definitely not where I live now
At the absolute worst, if she breaks up with me (and after 10 years of being in this relationship, I doubt it), I get 90 days to vacate by Minnesota law 👌 😂
Her parents put down 30k on our house
That's a big house out there
Uh, no, no it is not
It is a 2 bedroom 1 bath in downtown Minneapolis
Has she talked or hinted at marriage before? Ten years is a long time and it's not like it would change anything except some health insurance stuff.
was it just 10%, so 300,000?
No, it was 30k on a house that cost 160
fuck man
that's like less than a 20 year mortgage
She used to, until all the friends she was jealous of getting married got divorced in < 3 years
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Well how long did those cunts know each other?
Marriage lowers the income tax a bunch, but divorce laws sides heavily towards the female spouse
I know like 3-4 older guys living in mobile homes because their wife is entitled to the home