Message from @Jacob

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2019-01-27 22:29:49 UTC  
2019-01-27 22:30:13 UTC  

!!!

2019-01-27 22:30:13 UTC  

I didn't understand that. Try 'help' for more info.

2019-01-27 22:30:24 UTC  

Sorry apollo

2019-01-27 22:30:27 UTC  

!help

2019-01-27 22:30:31 UTC  

@The Lion Trying to force people into thinking the way you do about things, especially with regards to direct action - "read, this book - watch this video", that stuff often has the opposite effect.

2019-01-27 22:30:53 UTC  

haha is it really that surprising? I don't shop at any of the stores with fancy brand names because they're too expensive

2019-01-27 22:31:27 UTC  

One of the stores I shop at is employee owned, and the other too are irrelevant small chains that have better things to do than worry about politics

2019-01-27 22:31:32 UTC  

Well I mean she’s interested @Papa Pizzagate

2019-01-27 22:31:34 UTC  

reposting this since the topic is shopping

2019-01-27 22:32:04 UTC  

I’m not forcing her here, it’s just I don’t really know how to explain traditional values to a woman.

2019-01-27 22:32:15 UTC  

At least not in detail

2019-01-27 22:32:23 UTC  

@Jacob It is to me. Even local chains with 3 stores usually have posters up with the usual garbage on it. I mostly go to local butcher shops and bakeries these days.

2019-01-27 22:32:34 UTC  

Sometimes I miss ben and jerrys

2019-01-27 22:32:43 UTC  

oh well I guess it depends where you are

2019-01-27 22:32:51 UTC  

in Seattle there's a gay flag in every window

2019-01-27 22:33:06 UTC  

@Jacob that’s really sad lol

2019-01-27 22:33:08 UTC  

shit, there was even a smoke shop with a "we refuse fascism bla bla bla" sign

2019-01-27 22:33:29 UTC  

I'm in Eastern Washington, which is red, though

2019-01-27 22:33:36 UTC  

so that might be why the local chains don't bother

2019-01-27 22:34:56 UTC  

I work next to a hair dresser with a HUGE sign that says "proudly LGBT owned"

2019-01-27 22:35:07 UTC  

@The Lion frame it more like relationship goals. "Wouldn't it be great if we get to the point when we have children, that you don't have to work. You could stay home with the kids and take care of the home... We could have you know, an Irish setter or something, a property with a few acres, maybe some veggies and a little herb garden, we could even raise bees."

If she is already interested such ideas would probably appeal to her

2019-01-27 22:35:30 UTC  

Do you live in a blue part of Ohio?

2019-01-27 22:35:33 UTC  

that might be why

2019-01-27 22:35:44 UTC  

Beekeeping does seem pretty cool.

2019-01-27 22:35:50 UTC  

"Plus, you know...we want to have a couple of kids, so it would be *pretty difficult* for the both of us to work AND raise good children" @The Lion

2019-01-27 22:35:53 UTC  

I live in a big city, but the red suburb I'm from has the same problem

2019-01-27 22:36:16 UTC  

is the county blue?

2019-01-27 22:36:22 UTC  

No

2019-01-27 22:36:26 UTC  

huh weird

2019-01-27 22:36:27 UTC  

I’ve accentuated the importance of a homemaker before, she’s interested.

2019-01-27 22:36:34 UTC  

maybe you just notice this stuff more than I do

2019-01-27 22:36:43 UTC  

I might be desensitized from all the time I spent in Seattle

2019-01-27 22:36:46 UTC  

@The Lion I think there is a lot you can do, just with your own behavior, without pressuring her

2019-01-27 22:36:52 UTC  

Perhaps that’s a better way than trying to read some philosophical crap

2019-01-27 22:36:57 UTC  

We were 98% white a few years back and were pretty aggressively targeted for the past few years

2019-01-27 22:36:59 UTC  

I'm also engaged, and the dynamic with my fiance shifted as I became more traditional

2019-01-27 22:37:40 UTC  

@The Lion You might get something out of red pill married forums like on reddit, or the High T marriage blog

2019-01-27 22:37:59 UTC  

and of course there are things you can do yourself, like saving and investing to enable a traditional lifestyle for yourself and her down the road

2019-01-27 22:38:24 UTC  

Another thing, what would you all consider a good career for a traditional man.